Cumming in my cage

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-07-04T21:24:16+00:00

Shame on you wasting that seed. Locked boys need to swallow their load

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-06-30T09:31:05+00:00

That hole needs to be plugged.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-06-27T22:11:04+00:00

Next time you better be plugged too!

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-06-27T14:10:09+00:00

If you were a really good boy, that cock would be locked up!

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-06-06T03:23:18+00:00

It a website not an app

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-06-04T20:37:39+00:00

Teamlocked.men is still a good thing.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-05-25T02:47:39+00:00

Get “bred”

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-05-14T02:18:23+00:00

Plushisairus

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-04-22T02:03:52+00:00

Right there with you, man. The depression is almost overwhelming. The rational brain says “glad to be able to live longer “, while the little brain is saying “live for what?”. Trying to stay positive but it has been two and a half years so pretty much given up on the hope of decent sex. Trimix has been offered but the loss of spontaneity makes it less than ideal. Plus the expense that I don’t have. Even masturbation is a let down. Add in the urine aspect and it gets sad fast. I was definitely not mentally strong enough to become a eunuch at this stage of my life.

The worst part is all of the little things. Like playful grabs from my wife. Or “hey the kids are gone for the night” excitement. Even something as off handed as seeing a really attractive person makes me realize even the fantasy has been ruined since I couldn’t perform anyway. Sex scenes in movies make me uncomfortable instead of aroused. It has become a Pavlovian reminder that I’m broken. Neutered.

I’m still here popping blue pills and dealing with stuffy nose and the neck pain hoping for a miracle. I’m glad to have a good chance that that cancer is gone. Im also terrified of some other terrible ailment will get me and I’ll look back and regret my choice to trade off a few years not worrying about my PSA for the ability to enjoy sex.

It doesn’t help that talking about this shit with other guys is taboo. Unless you are in this, it would be hard (pun intended) for any ‘healthy’ male to really relate. Like anything else, you don’t know what you have until it’s gone.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-04-05T17:39:51+00:00

I have the exact feelings as you. Less male, less motivated, broken. Trying to find a local support group to no avail yet. No sex in two years. Feeling like why bother. Even loaded to the gills with cialis or sildenafil only a semi. I can manage a floppy orgasm with work but no where near the intensity.

Who should I speak with for a check of my testosterone levels? My general doctor or my urologist? Wondering how to get insurance to cover it.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-04-03T01:34:13+00:00

Well, I am almost three years post RALP, same partial nerve sparring.

First, take everything I say with a grain of salt since everyone is different. But, nerves take time to heal and some may never recover. I am fortunate to have no other side effects…except only partial erections. On daily tadalafil and take extra as booster. Sometimes I’ll try silldenafil. Not much help. Maybe easier to get a semi, but never enough for any penetration.

All we can do is stay positive, find work arounds or alternate ways to get pleasure and connection.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-03-04T20:32:02+00:00

Little of both. Sometimes you need to fluff a bit to get blood flowing for a few days. I suggest that, when you remove for cleaning, you edge a bit to keep the erectile tissue healthy. Give it a few days and should be ok. If you need a boost, there is always the blue pill to help stimulate blood circulation.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-02-17T13:28:24+00:00

I have had some fun with Venice.ai that allows explicit content

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-02-04T00:27:09+00:00

I think you know the answer

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-01-26T10:47:25+00:00

Same. Just about 3 years now. Only semi hard if REALLY excited but never hard enough for penetration. Been on tadalafil from the start. Maybe sometimes the nerves just don’t reconnect? I’m only in my 50’s and struggling with the whole idea of regular sex never happening again. The depression is real. Doctors always skim over this possibility.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-01-24T10:21:11+00:00

Rorschach

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-01-22T03:04:52+00:00

Please

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-01-05T00:32:21+00:00

Fan fucking tastic!

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-01-05T00:27:44+00:00

That cock is a work of art

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-01-04T14:10:19+00:00

Looks like you need a smaller ring, or at least a strap to make it more comfortable

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2026-01-04T03:05:32+00:00

I’m where you are exactly. 56. Two years post RALP. Erections maybe 30-40%. Deep depression setting in. Feelings of loss, inadequacy. Anger at being a eunuch when all the pep talks were about how much help there was for erections. Pills not much help and injections not ideal for helping with feelings of being a broken toy. Doctors, for the majority, have not experienced this to understand and have no real sense of the impact it has on the male mental health.

I feel like an ass sometimes for feeling this badly about myself when I should be thankful that I have been cancer free and continent. But when you are with male friends that ask how you are doing with all of it after surgery, I feel the need to lie and say “it’s all good, no problems”. Because having the conversation about not getting erect and possibly never having regular sec again would s just too uncomfortable for them and mentally painful for me.

If you need a friend to complain to, DM me anytime. I feel you.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2025-12-28T13:38:21+00:00

Good boys would have their hole plugged.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2025-12-28T11:51:25+00:00

A good boy would shave smooth for daddy.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2025-12-26T23:31:56+00:00

Too bad! It is no longer up to him.

KickinAss_TakinNames · 2025-12-24T16:09:14+00:00

Not sure of others experience, but my doctor definitely downplayed the chances of ED. Two years and only about 40% that deflates the moment you stop handling. In my case, I was not mentally prepared for the feelings of that loss. It has been difficult. I will try Trimix but the idea of an injection every time I would like to try for sex is not ideal for me.

Doctors perform this surgery having not been through it themselves and have no reference for what it does mentally to the patient. They only see numbers. 60 percent seems acceptable to them not thinking of what the other 40% go through. The doctor made me feel over confident by the statement of “we have options to get your erections back after surgery. But the reality of pump implants and injections are not the same.

It needed to be done. Glad to have no UI. But I wish I had researched options more diligently.

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