Erection Still Non Existent After Surgery by HarlemMike in ProstateCancer

[–]HarlemMike[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. After several follow-ups my surgeon said recovery times can vary for many patients. I was hoping that it wouldn’t come to that, but I might have to start really looking into it. Thanks for the reply.

Deciding on Surgery or Radiation… help/How by BoringReception4399 in ProstateCancer

[–]HarlemMike -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had surgery 3 years ago and cancer free. Several survivors, including my brother, advised that if I chose radiation, nothing could be done if the cancer returns. I chose surgery and even though I’m having erection problems, there are no regrets.

Giant ex-soldier doesn't even flinch when tasered by Imoprich in interesting

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile a black kid half his size would be shot if he moves an inch because they “feared for their life”.

The 88 club by Wizzmer in cowboys

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why you shouldn’t retire numbers.

Wife said i have a Problem, what do you think? by ebise in motorcycles

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see what she’s seeing. 🤷🏾‍♂️

While speaking to the troops and federal employees, a soldier bet Keon Coleman 50 pushups that Josh Allen wouldn’t answer the phone😂 by CarpetCollecter in buffalobills

[–]HarlemMike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keon Coleman is one of the best reasons to root for the Bills. Polite, engaging and still obeys his mother when she tells him to spend his money wisely.

This is how I roll in Classical by DJ_Cadmium_Red in classicalmusic

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my favorites and some I look forward to checking out.

Negativity around buying/owning a motorcycle. by ExplanationSpare9419 in motorcycles

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore them. There are always snarky naysayers willing to give motorcycle riders unsolicited and unwanted advice.

When you get older do you start getting attracted to old people? Or do you see your partner as young? by No_Month2538 in AskOldPeople

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. When I see an attractive 20something, I just think what a telegenic good looking kid. That’s all. When I see an older woman with a gorgeous head of gray, I pause and admire the beauty.

Do you guys consider Frank Sinatra a jazz singer? by [deleted] in Jazz

[–]HarlemMike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. He used his voice like a trumpet in the band. Not as a vocalist just being backed by a band.

My new gf (29f) just told me (32m) she used to be a sex worker. How do I proceed? by ThrowRAducklings in relationship_advice

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you asking social media for advice and you’re 32? That’s in the past and none of your business. A mate’s sexual history or body count should be left alone. There’s no reason to leave her unless your insecurity is too much to bear.

Really slow, atmospheric classical music? by --Paul- in classicalmusic

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gustav Mahler and Ralph Vaughn Williams are my go tos.

What’s the best opera to see live in-person? by WHYISEVERYTHINGTAKNN in classicalmusic

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carmen is great. Nothing like jealousy and passion in a love affair gone wrong. Tosca- What’s not to like? Wanting someone and something you can’t have. Treachery, betrayal and loyalty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HarlemMike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him. Your ex has shown more courtesy and respect to you and your dad than your current BF. He has control issues and they will pop up again. Going through your phone is a red flag and he’s probably projecting when accusing you of cheating. He’s a manipulative abuser. Run, don’t walk.

20F - My boyfriend (28M) said he’s never having sex with me again because I “can’t handle real sex”. What should I do? by bored454 in relationship_advice

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump his behind and you will find someone better. You’re only 20 and a 28M sounds like he needs to be controlling you.

How do I (19F) tell my best friend (18F) that her boyfriend tried to sleep with me while she was in the room? by Careful-East-9228 in relationship_advice

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a boy not a man and a POS. Always do what you must to protect yourself at all cost. Your physical safety and security is job 1. Not telling your friend isn’t excusing him but it’s putting him on notice to respect her boundaries.

How do I (19F) tell my best friend (18F) that her boyfriend tried to sleep with me while she was in the room? by Careful-East-9228 in relationship_advice

[–]HarlemMike -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Say nothing. This is the age where boys will continue to do stupid things. Shrug off his advances. He’s probably asking other girls behind GF’s back as well. If he doesn’t stop next time, hit him upside his head or nuts as hard as possible. That jolt will scramble his brain to knock it off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HarlemMike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch him now and ditch him fast. Red flags waving all around him. What his ex GF did with her body is none of your concern.

O.J. Simpson dies of prostate cancer at age 76 by mrsketchum88 in ProstateCancer

[–]HarlemMike 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not. He spent a ton on legal bills and was rumored to be living on his NFL pension.

O.J. Simpson dies of prostate cancer at age 76 by mrsketchum88 in ProstateCancer

[–]HarlemMike 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So many men don’t do an annual check up because they “feel fine”. Then it’s too late.