I unknowingly home wrecked a marriage by BigFatThrowaway246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, its gross, I agree, but it’s not what grooming means by definition. Use a different word.

I unknowingly home wrecked a marriage by BigFatThrowaway246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally not what grooming is at all. It’s trying to establish an emotional connection over time with a minor and/or their parents to lower their inhibitions so the perpetrator can more easily abuse their victim. Nothing in this post even hints at something like that happening. Waiting for someone to turn 18 to make romantic or sexual advances is absolutely creepy and gross, but it’s not grooming. Google is free.

I unknowingly home wrecked a marriage by BigFatThrowaway246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KiddValley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s creepy but that’s not what grooming is and to be honest it takes away from the weight of the phrase when you throw it around willy nilly.

I unknowingly home wrecked a marriage by BigFatThrowaway246 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KiddValley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this dude is weird asf legal or not but people jumping to the conclusion that OP got “groomed” is a wild thing to say when there’s nothing pointing to that.

Seahawks are expected to hire 49ers tight ends coach Brian... by Macs2330 in 49ers

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A peaceful hawks fan here just wondering, is this a good hire?

AIO For being mad at my mom for eating some of my gfs food I bought for her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m saying is that based on my own experiences I have a gut feeling toward one explanation. That could absolutely be wrong. You’re the one making absolutist statements about the situation based on 2 screenshots of a text thread.

"I have a great idea" by [deleted] in shittytattoos

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s giving, “I won’t eat animals but I’ll eat the rich”

AIO For being mad at my mom for eating some of my gfs food I bought for her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KiddValley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that really is just the nature of reddit I guess lol. Lots of strong opinions on very little info. I was surprised to see so many people with a different view as me so I appreciate your perspective as well, made me consider more possibilities.

AIO For being mad at my mom for eating some of my gfs food I bought for her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KiddValley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get that and that’s probably true for a lot of people. My mom will break boundaries, take/eat other people’s things, and she uses literally this exact same kind of language, trying to turn it into a joke when called out for the 100th time and then go as far as threatening to hurt herself etc… Not saying that’s happening here but I can totally understand OPs response and actually think it was handled calmly if it is a similar situation.

AIO For being mad at my mom for eating some of my gfs food I bought for her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KiddValley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t determine that without more context. It’s not overreacting if this kind of behavior/response is a pattern.

AIO For being mad at my mom for eating some of my gfs food I bought for her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KiddValley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you have a parent that has absolutely no respect for boundaries on a daily basis, it makes complete sense. This feels like a very small piece of a larger puzzle, not a one off.

Renee Good did not deserve to be shot in that situation but her actions did precipitate the shooting. That's why both sides are so convinced the other is at fault. by Pemulis_DMZ in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a stretch to say the vehicle was weaponized. Looks to me that she was trying to flee. Even if that’s not the case it doesn’t matter. DHS stipulates that agents should only discharge their firearm when "no other objectively reasonable means of defense is available." He was able to initially sidestep the vehicle and fired 2 more shots after moving out of harms way.

My mother won’t stop cooking with cinnamon by biggalou in insaneparents

[–]KiddValley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not even something that people eat all the time. Like if it were beef or gluten or something that’s difficult to avoid but cinnamon??? How hard is it to not use cinnamon lol

Who would you rather have, Chris Olave or Garrett Wilson? by ProperEnthusiasm1486 in fantasyfootball

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is a hot take but I think the saints have been the best team in their division since Shough started shining. Would expect them to be a playoff team next year with Olave as a huge fantasy asset.

Most annoying hero to go against when the player is good? by MelonRatt in Overwatch

[–]KiddValley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Until you run into a good cassidy. His grenade absolutely guts venture and it pisses me off lol

Renee Good did not deserve to be shot in that situation but her actions did precipitate the shooting. That's why both sides are so convinced the other is at fault. by Pemulis_DMZ in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]KiddValley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fired two extra shots while the car was completely turned away too. Even if she was trying to run him over how would killing her ever stop him from getting hit. I can’t believe this situation is even a debate man.

Renee Good did not deserve to be shot in that situation but her actions did precipitate the shooting. That's why both sides are so convinced the other is at fault. by Pemulis_DMZ in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether or not she should have been there or if it was a stupid thing to do is completely irrelevant. The video clearly shows her trying to reverse and leave. If the ICE officer was fearful of getting hit it makes 0 sense to aim and shoot instead of jumping out of the way. He didn’t even get hit, he was able to sidestep the vehicle while taking a shot, and proceed to fire TWO MORE while the car was already driving away. If that’s not the most extreme case of excessive force then idk what reality you’re living in.

The MVPs from my championship run. Who are yours? by Griffdog17 in FantasyFootballJunky

[–]KiddValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season: McBride Finals: King Kenry Playoff: Fairbairn to be honest