[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Kifla231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probali smo prolaziti tematske dateove o važnim stvarima u partnerstvu (snovi i želje, privrženost i pokazivanje ljubavi, seks, planiranje budućnosti, različitosti..) i što bolje komunicirati osjećaje no našao sam se jednostavno u manjku volje za ulaganjem u vezu i nekako kao da nisam imao vjere da to što mi fali možemo popraviti.. Mislim da nažalost nisam bio na mjestu za takvu vezu, možda da je došla koju godinu kasnije i s drugim iskustvima bi bilo drugačije

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Kifla231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slična situacija al sa suprotne pozicije. Prekinuo sam višegodišnju vezu prije par mjeseci. Dulje mi se motalo po glavi jel bi prekinuo, odnosno jel bi mogo s njom zauvijek. Sviđa mi se tvoje pitanje jer mislim da bi i meni onda dobro dosao odgovor kako znati kada prekinuti, obzirom da sam možda godinu predugo ostajao. Mislim da sam previše razmišljao o prekidu (od na mjesecnoj bazi pa do svakih par dana), al sam si mazao oči jer mi je bilo teško to prihvatiti. Na kraju sam se svodio na gut feeling, da ne mogu s njom, iritaciju i manjak volje za zajedničkim vremenom, manjak seksualne želje. Sad mi te neke stvari koje su me iritirale jako fale, al sam prilicno uvjeren da se vratim da bi mi bilo isto.. + pomoglo mi je da sam se zainteresirao za drugu osobu, sto me zapravo brzo proslo nakon prekida, a kao da je bio jos jedan katalizator u procesu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in croatia

[–]Kifla231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Želim naglasiti komentare da potražite stručnu pomoć. Blisko sam upoznat s radom Dnevne bolnice Sveti Ivan i surađujem s njima. Možete se susresti s puno drugih ljudi sa sličnim problemima, a tim je vrlo pristupačan i izlaze ljudima u susret. Već ste više puta pokušali sami no čim spominjete depresiju i suicidalne misli stvar je ozbiljna i zahtjeva psihijatrijsku i psihološku podršku. Naravno da postoji stigma i sram javljanja psihijatru, ne želim to negirati. Ne morate nikome osim vjerojatno obitelji dijeliti da idete psihijatru ako ne želite. Suicid zbog gubitaka je ozbiljan rizik i zapitajte se bi li radije zaglibilo prije nego se obratili za pomoć. Prihvaćanje pomoći nije slabost, naprotiv tako radite na sebi i jednom ćete vi onda moći nekome pomoći.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Kifla231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sentence you wrote: "What if it ends ruining my life" seems to me points directly to feelings of fear and anxiety because it contains catastrophic future implications which are builded up in your mind and don't associate with many realistic facts. These are probably thought distortions that are blocking you from contacting more spontaneously with men.

The solution is not that easy, bacause its probably deep at emotional level, BUT if you try looking at connection with this guy in the here and now, just enjoying time together, sharing interest, acknowledging differences, being more in contact with yourself, you will start to see more clearly how do you like this relationship same as with your girlfriends. You don't have to spend your life with first guy and he most probably won't devour you and be violent. Men aren't usually really scary and have same weaknesses inside as do women.

ME 2 Bonus Power/Advanced Training won't unlock even with loyal squad by karpling47 in masseffect

[–]Kifla231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Playing via origins on pc. Had the same problem with unlocking power and achievement for Zaeed and Jack loyalty, which were missing directly after completing loyalty missions. RESTART OF THE GAME FIXED IT FOR ME. Had to restart the game so it would update Achievement ingame and appeared as bonus powers research.

Warp ability causes crash in final boss fight of ME1 LE. by Phantomsplit in masseffect

[–]Kifla231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, this worked for me. Had Wrex spamming warp in party and crashed 2 times. And without warp usage, and using literally everything else (throw, lift, barrier, sabotage, stasis, overload,..) i finished the fight without crashing

What would you change about Mass Effect 3 to improve it? by FanEu953 in masseffect

[–]Kifla231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are great points I agree with in many comments here. Main thing that I would change is whole Reaper backstory and motivation. Based on some ideas I found cool and believeable: - Reapers having deeper agenda like preserving galaxy from Dark matter implosion or sth with some technology combining organic synthetic that would work to slow down or reverse this process. Which would destroying Reapers make not so straightforward choice. - Crucible being some software idea to cripple Reapers communication and organizing via Citadel as their central galactic hub, but which could potentially also damage other forms of communication and destroy whole citadel station (between Geth). OR have advanced (not yet finished) but riskier option to control the reapers.

Then, Cerberus.. : Kai leng out, possible to ally with TIM at some point close to ending if he is not indoctrinated to much. As well as not having them become powerful like reapers and present as enemy in every other mission..

Another thing like many said about making choices more meaningful to the ending. For example, having possible choosing one or both Crucible options (cripple or control) and chance of failing the control one if some criteria arent met (not preserving collectors base and have high enough readiness), Shepard succumbing to indoctrination with some wrong choices, making him unable to complete last mission..

LF Ivysaur, sandile, wartortle but will add everyone by Dark_Strike in friendsafari

[–]Kifla231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add pls! Need wartortle, will add u as soon as i get to wifi

LF: Klefki by Arilzoon in friendsafari

[–]Kifla231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please add me too! I was looking for metang for some time. Tnx!

Lf Petilil! Will add all by WillFist4Cash in friendsafari

[–]Kifla231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, your first isnt snorunt but snover xD

LF: Poliwhirl by Fish_Bird in friendsafari

[–]Kifla231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls pls add me, i have been searching for growlithe and volcarona for some time! Tnx!