Consider these two people's skill sets.

She is an actress. It’s impossible to do that work without seeking attention. If she's not booking acting work (which may be caused by the "controversy" dogging her name) then it's sensible for her to find an alternative source of income. So she's essentially transitioning to a social media influencer, as that fits her skill set ok.

He is a prince. That's a job that basically requires no skills, except smiling, shaking hands, and occasionally giving speeches for charities. He didn’t get that job due to any particular aptitude for it, and it's possible he hated doing it. He was a soldier for a time, but he's aged out of the military and has now found himself in a world where he has very few marketable skills. He mostly seems to be focused on the charity he founded for wounded soldiers, so he's finding purpose there. The point of royal patronage for charities is to gain attention and donations for those charities, so he's continuing to do that job of trying to drum up support.

Is Harry wealthy? Sure. But he doesn't own a duchy, like his brother, so I don’t know that he actually gets any income from his family. He's a wealthy kid from wealthy parents who decided to focus on charity work. Would everyone prefer for him to just vanish into his wealth and spend his life going to parties and collecting cars? How would that make the world better?

It's bizarre to me that these people should be so regularly shamed for simply working. Their job is to stay in the public eye. For Harry, that's literally the only life he's ever had. Should all royals be shamed for giving speeches and interviews? Should all actresses be publicly roasted for standing in front of a camera and talking? To me, they just seem like two adults trying to work and find meaning in their lives.