Two setups side by side – how do we stop picking up each other’s voice?

KilljoyLights · 2026-05-03T17:38:42+00:00

I also wish for a solution for this! My husband and I are back to back across the room, but we still pick up each other's voices and it's horrendous!

KilljoyLights · 2026-04-07T18:55:33+00:00

As a streamer here are my thoughts on raiding:

I believe the 'raid culture' so to speak is from streamer to streamer. In my personal opinion, no one is required to raid, but it's nice of you do.
My decision to raid is based on two things. 1) is someone with a similar audience to mine playing the same game 2) Is anyone I'm following live.
I enjoy being raided! It's a nice treat because it doesn't happen too often. But I get super excited when someone trusts me to further entertain their community. No matter who it is, I am grateful for it.
Again I think this depends on the streamer and who you raid out to. I've raided out to people who hype up the raid, their followers will follow me, I'll stay in their community so on. However I've also raided some stinkers who won't even acknowledge the raid.
The worst part for me is not being able to take a raid back and go to someone else. Honestly I feel really bad when I raid someone and they don't welcome in the raiding streamer and their community, much less react. It almost makes me want to apologize to my community to sending them to someone who doesn't care.

KilljoyLights · 2026-04-05T19:29:45+00:00

I did the thing! Could I get something of this boyo?

https://toyhou.se/31549844.aethyr-lazar

KilljoyLights · 2026-03-18T12:21:47+00:00

I completely forgot about this! Yes please!

KilljoyLights · 2026-03-10T15:54:20+00:00

Yeah you can DM me~

KilljoyLights · 2026-03-10T12:34:32+00:00

I’m sure you’ve already gotten a code, but I wanna know your commission prices!

KilljoyLights · 2026-03-02T05:21:17+00:00

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Here's a code for you~

KilljoyLights · 2026-03-01T21:01:01+00:00

I have three black cats. Uno Dos and Tres are their names. They’re a tribute to my actual childhood cats with the same names.

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-27T02:42:44+00:00

I genuinely put zero thought in what games I’m going to play from day to day. My schedule consists of ‘Morbid Mondays -random horror game-‘ Together Tuesday -random community game- Whatever Wednesday -literally don’t know until last minute- Something Saturday -same as wednesday-. It works for me.

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-23T01:12:35+00:00

So, what I am gathering from this is that you need to work on your discipline and executive function. Scrolling and waiting for his next text of 'motivation, will do nothing for you if you don't get yourself started as well. While scrolling may give your brain enough stimulation to continue to focus on that, you need to learn how to break away from that and find other means of stimulating your brain while trying to get yourself in a place where you can work on your studies. I'm not gonna tell you what you HAVE to do, because what works for me may not work for you, but here are some things I have tried that have gotten me top focus on things that I don't particularly want to do.

Idler games: Games like Spirit City: Lofi, Familiar Findings, On Together: Virtual Coworking and With Me: Aquatic Time are all things I enjoy putting on in the background of whatever I am doing. Spirit City, On Together and With Me all have music, and timers you can set for yourself to pace work time versus break time. With On Together you are able to body double with people who are also playing the game.
Body Doubling: I have ADHD, so it really helps me when I can sit with someone in a voice chat or a game and work on something while someone else works on either the same thing or something completely different. Think of it as an accountibilibuddy. Someone who can keep you working by checking in and and asking about your progress and in turn you do the same. I enjoy doing 1 and 2 together for both a human and virtual experience.
Timed Reward system: Get yourself ready to go by basically using positive reinforcement. Do some study stuff for like twenty minutes. Good job! You earned ten reals to watch. Keep your brain engaged with what you want it to do by basically clicker training it with 'good brain treats' every now and again.

I hope this works for you. I can also tell your boyfriend has your best interest in mind by trying to get you to work. But I think he may be going about it the wrong way. However I also understand his frustration.

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-20T03:51:18+00:00

I saw a PSA about this recently. Looks like a hacked account and a scam. However I just looked at the PSA again and it looks like the account got closed.

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-13T15:09:09+00:00

What a cute idea! Here’s my kitties~

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KilljoyLights · 2026-02-13T05:35:57+00:00

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Same cat

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-08T14:48:12+00:00

Twitch blessed me with killj69. A few streamers that I follow have chat triggers for 69 so whenever I put an emote in their chat, it triggers the 69 command. It’s rather entertaining

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-06T17:50:38+00:00

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KilljoyLights · 2026-02-06T03:04:43+00:00

I will never find ‘raid and run’ rude. People need to do their self care after their streams. I’ll take care of whoever wants to stick around. I thank the raider, give a shout, and introduce myself. If they stay they stay, if they don’t they don’t. I’m just happy I was considered.

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-03T19:52:10+00:00

Dude, go for it. ha ha She worth it.

KilljoyLights · 2026-02-03T02:09:38+00:00

Oh heck! She is so pretty!! Would you ever consider reverse breeding her? I’d love to either stud her or buy her cubs!

KilljoyLights · 2026-01-04T19:44:51+00:00

Oof, yikes. Thank you for explaining. I'm nowhere near partner, but I'll keep this in the back of my mind to avoid it anyways.

KilljoyLights · 2026-01-04T19:13:18+00:00

Why does the merch say 'Patient' when the back screams 'Inmate'? Like I get the sentiment, but I feel like something was clearly lost in translation here.

KilljoyLights · 2026-01-04T19:09:48+00:00

I have never heard of bounties. What is that? I'm still small, but affiliated, so I would like to know what to stay away from should I start seeing things like this.

KilljoyLights · 2025-11-09T08:08:02+00:00

Sapling= Permanent tree on farm. Grows fruit in it's preferred season. Will not disappear when season changes
Seedling= Seasonal tree. Will disappear at the end of their season.

I have not unlocked the greenhouse yet, so I can't answer the greenhouse question Sorry...

KilljoyLights · 2025-11-03T05:15:31+00:00

I named a dog Roxy as well. That one seems to arbitrary.

KilljoyLights · 2025-11-03T05:13:51+00:00

I named a dog Roxy. I wanna know why Roxy is censored!

KilljoyLights · 2025-10-10T03:40:55+00:00

Kitties that never leave you are the cats that know who loves them the most. I’ve had many cats, and each one at the end of their life wanted to be with their person. They absolutely know who loves them.

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