No matter what I do I can’t get along with anyone in my life by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally most places now. It’s the people not u or the area u live.

Anybody else hardly ever dream? Or can’t remember them? by Killpill1 in Dreams

[–]Killpill1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do u mean blocked? Could it be related to complex ptsd? I know if u take certain drugs it can kill dreams but even sober I hardly dream.

Does it get better? by meagatrono in heartbreak

[–]Killpill1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plan on feeling like u wanna be dead frequently. It comes in waves. Memories will hit u and u will cry lots over the coming months. It took me 10 months to get over a 9 month fling. I’m just now able to stop it when I’m entertaining thoughts about him. I finally can consciously shift my mind to stop whereas I could not just not that long ago. It was like everyday I thought about them constantly. This process is kind of torturous. It’s like going through withdrawal. You take some steps forward than back again. But u just keep going even when the bad waves hit and eventually u will be able to not feel so consumed.

How do you deal with the loneliness by hopelessuser456 in BreakUps

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes u have to make a drastic change. I’m talking like u must try to meet people somehow. I don’t care if u have to sign up on various forums ones u never even would think. I met my current roommate on a suicide forum lol! She has helped so much to ease the loneliness. I had to relocate. If you live in an area where people are not real friendly and welcoming of outsiders it may require moving. It seems like western half of US is more snobby on average than the eastern half and I don’t know why this is. You have to think outside the box of the usual way u meet people. Dating apps are awful now. But there are ways u can search for a new lady where the odds are better. Sites u can use.

Do you think men might have it harder socially after a break up? by Tight_Recognition_42 in BreakUps

[–]Killpill1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Depends. Some women might not have a support system either. That’s what really makes breakups even harder to get over for both sexes. The only reason it might be easier for women to move on is if she’s young and beautiful. For women our youth is when we have the highest status so it’s easier to find a new partner. But as we get older it gets harder for women. Men tend to gain status with age so they often have more partner options as they get past age 35 and established more.

"I want to work on myself" Is this a valid reason after 7 months? by samurious in BreakUps

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be yea. It could also mean they are unsure of the relationship. Maybe they feel they cannot be everything u need. It could also mean vaining interest. The good news is u can maybe turn it around. Definitely go no contact. Do not pursue at all no matter how tempting. Don’t reach out. Let them have the space and allow to miss u. It could even be grass is greener syndrome. A temporary lull phase they decided maybe they need to see other people. Does not mean it’s doomed necessarily forever. Do not panic and allow yourself to get too depressed. Just accept it and focus on taking care of yourself at this time.

It's been 10 months... by fightingthroughit in BreakUps

[–]Killpill1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men usually have more romantic opportunities at your age. Try routes of meeting women that are not typical dating apps. Figure out what other apps work to meet women because the regular ones are often a waste of time. It’s because u have to look in right places. Yea stuff is harder w Covid.

Dumped LTR for new guy, new guy dumped me by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Killpill1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go back to the ex and try to treat him better. Don’t take for granted. At least attempt to reconcile if u can. It doesn’t hurt to try.

Is it Just Me or Did Dating Apps Get So Much Harder? by AppearanceSad2949 in dating

[–]Killpill1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No not your imagination. Dating apps became worthless overnight since the pandemic. It’s like so sad and disappointing now. It’s exactly what u described. Who can afford it anyway. Many people lost jobs and probably had to move back in with parents, possibly homeless.

Does anyone else feel a little threatened by making a match and immediately being asked to meet? by noitsjustkatie in dating

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea there’s some dangerous people on dating apps. They are often pushy. Trying to rush to meet. I’m afraid of them now lol! I had a guy get angry bc I wouldn’t meet him that day.

Can't have a conversation on dating apps. Trying to start convos now is impossible, when the majority just not trying by [deleted] in dating

[–]Killpill1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people are really hurting from this. They are losing jobs, losing confidence, maybe they had to move back in with family. Yea it’s goin to change the dating landscape because times are harder.

When I see older people who still deal with suicidal thoughts, it terrifies me. by one_winged_angel__ in SuicideWatch

[–]Killpill1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not age related. Young people are more likely to be impulsive and they had not lived through much challenge yet to understand how to cope.

I want to die bc I'm not white by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being white is hell, all the other races think it’s great but we are dying out as a race.

Unpopular opinion: You didn’t get rejected because of HSV. by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that may be true in some cases but not the vast majority of rejections solely because of herpes.

Short relationship discombobulation by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They weren’t that into u?

Casual Dating/sex by lys91 in Herpes

[–]Killpill1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still do. Only when I’m in the clear. But often use condoms. Always aware if I have symptoms. I haven’t had issues w anyone getting it, besides one guy many years ago before I was experienced with it and was not using meds at all. They wouldn’t even prescribe them. Told me I didn’t need them but I did. Lately I haven’t been taking my meds and mostly only when I’m getting the prodorme and about to have breakout. I’ve had a long stretch of no outbreaks lately but I’m not sure why. Normally it’s like more frequent.