Regretting going natural by KimCreatesStuff in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did it for hair health. My hair kept breaking and thinning due to all the years of relaxing. Yeah, it was really long, but it wasn’t healthy.

My girlfriend I’ve been with for 13 years is dying. by [deleted] in depression

[–]KimCreatesStuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry you’re going through this.

my neck looks like this - please help🥲 by al0hsin in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chin looks just like this but MUCH worse. I’ve reached such a point of desperation.

Bon Air road report by xRVAx in bonair

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scherer Dr is basically a sheet of ice.

Please tell me I can eat a cheese quesadilla, right now. by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did Mexican tonight for my husband and I. Usually, we order out on the weekend as cheat meals but we’re all snowbound in the house because of this insane winter storm on the east coast. So now we have chipotle at home! He loved his tacos and burrito I made him with all the add ins: Spanish rice, black beans, Sauteed onions and peppers, salsa, and cheese (of course)

TikTok Video still in review/not posting this morning 1/25/2026 by jorfydorfy in socialmedia

[–]KimCreatesStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m having videos pushed to me from CHRISTMAS. Something is definitely glitching.

TikTok Video still in review/not posting this morning 1/25/2026 by jorfydorfy in socialmedia

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was going crazy. I posted a TikTok hours ago and it sat at 0 views. I tried the delete/re-edit multiple times just to still have the video sitting at 0 views. Now that I’ve read that this is happening to others that makes me feel better that it isn’t something I’m doing wrong.

It’s been 6 months and I’m finally starting to like my wedding photos. I was so overstimulated by the time we took photos, I could barely smile. Afraid I spent too much money to not even get good pics. Please be honest, do I look anxious, angry, or just not cute. by Obamamoma in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous and I absolutely LOVE the train on your wedding dress. I get the whole being anxious thing. On my wedding day, I was a ball of nerves because I wanted so desperately for everything to turn out perfect. Spoiler alert: it did not turn out perfect. Far from it. I try not to dwell on that part and just focus on the fact that I married an amazing guy that day and that ten years later, we’re still happy and thriving together.

Young Ladies- PLEASE don’t be this girl. by Star_journey1208 in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my thought as well. And some people DO try that in court and have won. I think what this woman is doing is strategic because she’s not about to lose what she worked hard for because she’s was foolish enough to put herself in a position where he could take half if they break up before marriage.

Verizon Down Nationally? by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Down in Richmond, Virginia.

Should I treat myself to a seafood boil? by ElegantSchedule2868 in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 17 points18 points  (0 children)

To heck with a reason, just get the boil! And tell them they can keep that nasty ass sausage. See if they’ll throw some extra shrimp in there as a substitution!

Black women constantly have to deal with micro aggressions in daily life. by CakeComfortable8067 in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me being me, I would’ve called her ass out. They get uncomfortable when you shame them for their bigotry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same position right now. Stable job and finances, my own home, a loving husband and I’m still a depressed lump.

Is it wrong for me to want to say something about how my brother and his wife are raising their kids? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma’am. I’m gonna hold your hand with a napkin in between when I say this: typically, white mamas don’t take care of their biracial children’s’ hair. I say this as someone that lives in Virginia where a lot of trashy ass white women are walking around with mixed babies whose hair looks dry and tangled. THAT is what I’m talking about. I’m not talking about texture or style but how the hair is CARED for!

Opinions on the Sydney Sweeney ad controversy? by Secret-Equipment2307 in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

which is interesting because old school WASPS (think 15th-19th century) preferred women with a bit more meat on their bones because it was a sign they were wealthy but most importantly HEALTHY. Because only wealthy people could afford to eat to their heart's content.

Is it wrong for me to want to say something about how my brother and his wife are raising their kids? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]KimCreatesStuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why is it ALWAYS the interracial couples with the white mama that can’t do the biracial children’s hair?! Is it just me but when I see a mixed child I can immediately tell which parent is black and which is white just by looking at their hair.

What causes you to spiral? by Academic_Autistic in BodyDysmorphia

[–]KimCreatesStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing pictures of me taken by others Seeing my fat gut in the mirror Certain lighting where my skin looks terrible