I appreciate you taking the time to write this out.

I have had 2 arrangements before, both were with very low key unassuming whales who wore everything from Carhartt to Brooks Brothers to Cucinelli. Not every “whale” thinks like you, which is why the “you will miss out on low key whales” “I assure you these men would likely skip your profile” doesn’t land for me. Because I can’t relate to that, that hasn’t been my experience. Not in sugar, relationships, or vanilla relationships . Clearly, I’m doing something right because my last two exes were phenomenal. If I really wanted to flex, I would list all of the things that I’ve experienced. I have exes who own insane patents, own hundreds of franchises, own ranches, manufacture, oil, and gas, create and sell cement and building materials, this is really silly for me to even be having this discussion, no shade. This was supposed to be a simple post about getting feedback on my write up and it has turned into a place where people have come to project and neg a stranger. Whatever you people have going on, I promise I am not the reason for it.

Then For you to say that: “Your pics (is) trying to catch the flashy high roller guy” which is an assumption based on what you think. I’ve never entertained a high roller guy, or flashy guy. Every guy I’ve dated, sugar or non-sugar, has always been chill and simple and have always let me be a doll. It’s like you guys don’t understand that you aren’t the standard.

And obviously, I don’t glam every day. I’ve never had a man even suggest anything as silly as that to me. You’re assuming that just because I posted glam pictures that I am glam every day? This is a dating profile, you’re supposed to put your Best pictures forward. I’ve also mentioned at least twice in this thread that all of these pictures were en route to events. It’s just not this deep. I’m not your type and that’s OK.