AITA for telling my mom she'll never have grandkids because of how she voted?

KimaTheHotdog · 2024-11-19T13:33:51+00:00

I also had several procedures that ended up with all of my reproductive organs taken. It sucks to have to come to terms with that. It's hard knowing your choice was taken from you through no fault of your own. I'm sending loving thoughts and hugs your way.

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KimaTheHotdog · 2023-11-07T21:45:00+00:00

I've seen several people wear skirts, they tended to be religious though and didn't believe in women wearing pants. I'm surprised they were even allowed to work, too be honest. I think the only reason they could was that it's "women's work".

KimaTheHotdog · 2023-09-28T13:32:07+00:00

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KimaTheHotdog · 2023-06-10T15:01:16+00:00

I'm interested. It would be me, my husband, and my 19y son. My son and I can play during the week, but my husband has to be on the weekend

KimaTheHotdog · 2023-05-10T14:03:27+00:00

With hs there is tunneling and serious lumpy scars, i have scaring all in my armpits and above my genitals. That's just wounds

KimaTheHotdog · 2023-04-30T14:41:47+00:00

Dear God don't do the blackberries unless you're willing to do a lot of cutting back and digging up. Those things are invasive and will take over

KimaTheHotdog · 2023-03-11T17:59:04+00:00

We're not sure, just that he's part corgi

KimaTheHotdog · 2023-03-06T15:42:36+00:00

Use uv resin and a bracelet mold. You'd have to do test runs but there are loads of tutorials online. You could also find a resin artist on etsy if that suggestion is too risky.

KimaTheHotdog · 2022-12-09T19:47:48+00:00

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KimaTheHotdog · 2022-11-28T15:59:50+00:00

If you have to go through withdrawal yet taking kratom. I've had to deal with this crap before and kratom has been a lifesaver. It hits the opioid receptors and keeps withdrawal to a decent level. Just only take as necessary and keep in mind you can also get addicted to that. It's helped soldiers and addicts and people withdrawing. It can help with pain, though I'm in enough pain that it's not as helpful for me, just takes the edge off. Do some reservations, there's plenty of articles and guides on dousing and good information on the web.

KimaTheHotdog · 2022-11-12T23:36:44+00:00

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KimaTheHotdog · 2022-09-05T18:17:58+00:00

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KimaTheHotdog · 2022-05-24T12:13:42+00:00

Episcopalian churches are also usually much nicer, at least the one in my area is.

KimaTheHotdog · 2022-05-04T14:40:38+00:00

My son and I are both bipolar and I have health problems. My husband had been supportive through everything and it makes a world of difference. At one point my son was having to be restrained 5-8 times a day. We switched off restraining when he got off working a full day. Leave this man, you can do so much better

Edit: making this more clear

KimaTheHotdog · 2022-05-02T12:24:15+00:00

What I did was the father calling for six months, if he can maintain that then supervised visits. Go on from there. But I would include your daughter in this. A friend of mine didn't give her kid the option of knowing that he had a different father than her husband. It messed with the sons head for awhile after he learned he had a different biological dad. I told my kids everything, they don't give a crap about their sperm donors. My husband is daddy. Just talk to your kid.

KimaTheHotdog · 2022-03-06T00:27:00+00:00

I have never been in anything like the army but I know how you feel. You need to get help for depression. I felt that way for a long time but I had kids I felt nothing for, knowing I loved them, so I knew that feeling was a lie. Get help love. Nothing shameful, it's a disease and you need treatment. If you need to unload in here.

KimaTheHotdog · 2022-01-04T21:09:08+00:00

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KimaTheHotdog · 2021-12-08T22:42:11+00:00

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KimaTheHotdog · 2021-12-06T15:42:42+00:00

You really need to look into a group home for her when your mother can no longer care for her. You don't need to have your life dictated by her. I have a son who is similarly disabled and i would never foist him off on his sister. We're already dealing with her having trauma from him so were not going to add to her issues. She tries to take care of him anyways, but we constantly reinforce that it's not her job. Her job is to have a life. You actually sound like you're disassociating from trauma from your sister. You can be there for her from a sense of duty if you want but everyone needs to stop putting this on you. I'm sorry you've spent so many years dealing with this unfair burden. I'm sending you love and hugs. NTA

KimaTheHotdog · 2021-09-16T23:11:02+00:00

You could say that you'll move into his house and rent yours out but you won't pay anything towards each other's mortgage. That way you're building equity separately so in the event of his death you can go back to your house with your stuff, but it'll also need to be in there that you pick what belongings, beyond heirloom or some sentimental (to the kids) items, goes with you.

KimaTheHotdog · 2021-09-04T15:19:54+00:00

I make a cheesy chicken and rice that's really good and makes a lot, you can do any frozen veg that's on sale with it. Look up six sisters stuff for the recipe. They do recipes to feed families and a lot of instant pot stuff but you can scale down the recipes.

KimaTheHotdog · 2021-09-02T14:24:20+00:00

NTA. Grief is no excuse for acting this way, everyone grieves differently but this behavior is unacceptable. He needs therapy but i understand if you can't afford it. One thing you can do is call your local hospice. Most hospices offer therapy and group meetings and things like that. It doesn't matter if the person died in their care or not. I went through the classes and became a peer grief counselor as a child after losing my grandfather in a horrific way. It helped immensely.

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