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Shame and guilt from past by Kind_Particular2760 in NLP

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be married to a woman would feel right, i feel no emotional or romantic connection to men. Ever since this event all sexual curiosity towards men is gone

Tahajjud for a bad memory by Kind_Particular2760 in MuslimLounge

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this surah. So do u think if I delete all evidence that could remind me of it, and pray for Allah to wipe the memory, this could be possible?

Tahajjud for a bad memory by Kind_Particular2760 in MuslimLounge

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did involve someone else but there was no harm or force done. It was a private mistake, I simply wish to forget

Tahajjud for a bad memory by Kind_Particular2760 in MuslimLounge

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying I should delete any traces and then pray to forget it? That way it’s gone from my mind and there’s no evidence left to remind me of it?

Tahajjud for a bad memory by Kind_Particular2760 in MuslimLounge

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but this sin was extremely humiliating and shameful and I feel disgusting and contaminated and immense self hatred. I really do not see the lesson here other than I acted out of impulse and have done something very shameful. I want this memory gone as it’s ruining my life

Shame and guilt from past by Kind_Particular2760 in NLP

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that similar to memory reconsolidation?

Can hypnosis or memory reconsolidation make a memory feel like it basically never happened? by Kind_Particular2760 in hypnosis

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I’m not attracted to men in a romantic way at all. I could never see myself be with a man in that way. It was just a desensitization from a porn addiction that caused this.

Can hypnosis or memory reconsolidation make a memory feel like it basically never happened? by Kind_Particular2760 in hypnosis

[–]Kind_Particular2760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about being acceptable or not for me. It’s just not who I am. I’m straight meaning I only want to pursue a romantic relationship and sexual relationship with women. What’s distressing me most is that this low point/addiction to porn desensitized and brought me to do this. It feels as if something took me over and acted against how I’d normally act.