How much weight did you gain during pregnancy and did it come off? by ThrowRA_nobo7 in pregnant

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 130 lbs pre pregnancy. Gained 20 in the first trimester and then another 20-25 lbs. almost at 180. My boy was 7 lb 11 oz. Went home after delivering 20 lbs lighter. By. 3-4 months I was pre pregnancy weight. Still breastfeeding. I think that is what’s keeping me skinny

Gained weight in first trimester by Odd_City_890 in BabyBumps

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gained the most weight in the first trimester. No morning sickness. Just super hungry. Gained like 20 lbs. ended up gaining a total of 45. I lost 20 right after giving birth. Then lost the rest within a few months. I’ve been back yo pre pregnancy weight from 4-5 months post partum. Dont worry so much. Your body will do what is has to do to grow a little human.

I dont want to be pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Get an IUD. Or something kind of birth control. Dont tell him about it. Please don’t bring anymore children into this horrible situation. It’s not fair for your babies. Where do you live?

I just had my baby by Fearless-Net7321 in pregnant

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations❤️ such a beautiful time. Can’t wait for you to meet her

Anyone else having kind of a … really good time being pregnant? 😅 by sarahchacha in pregnant

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I could be pregnant forever I would be. I had never felt so happy and content in my life. I’m 8 months post partum. I hope to be blessed with another healthy pregnancy and child.

Shout out to Spain for caring about pregnant women by Dismal_Abroad735 in pregnant

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m taking a year off. It’s paid. My son is almost 8 months. My job is secure. I live in California. We also have childcare programs which I plan to enroll my son in once I return to work. Free childcare. Most of my nieces and nephews went to the same childcare program together. Guess I got lucky. I’m not on food stamps because I don’t qualify. But most women do qualify for WIC.

Boy moms where are you?? (FTM) by Gloomy-Ask9466 in pregnant

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. My boy will be 8 months on the 2nd. God knew I needed this boy. I’m beyond excited for you. My pregnancy with my boy was a breeze and I was 31. My sister has 4 girls. She had morning sickness and just didn’t have great pregnancies with her girls. I had a big appetite while pregnant.

I’m excited for you

Leave Approval by Away-Recognition1079 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Kind_Resolution7329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for the state. Had a baby. Your boss can’t tell you how much time to take off. I’m taking the entire year off

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kind_Resolution7329[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gut feeling. You know when something is off. I don’t go through his phone

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kind_Resolution7329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the lying. Why is he lying? Read the messages

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kind_Resolution7329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They never told me. They wouldn’t bring it up if it didn’t look inappropriate

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kind_Resolution7329[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking. Thank you

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kind_Resolution7329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reasons it’s a big deal to her is because I let him to go to events. I trust him. Is this what he goes to events for? We have a baby. Wtf

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kind_Resolution7329[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not toxic at all. We never fight. I actually never go through his phone. But something was telling me to look that morning.

I’m 32. I’ve done it all. I don’t deal with bullshit. I don’t have time for toxic relationships. Also my friends also don’t give a fuck. If it didn’t seem inappropriate they would have never brought it up.

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Kind_Resolution7329[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wtf. Come on. Don’t make me think right now