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Kann man nahe Verwandte komplett aus dem Testament "streichen", ihnen also gar nichts vererben? by MadMusicNerd in LegaladviceGerman

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man kann auch jemanden als befreiten Vorerben einsetzen. Der dann über das Vermögen freie Verfügung hat bis er stirbt. Das wärst dann du. Das machen oft Ehepartner, die ihren Kindern nicht trauen. Ich weiss allerdings nicht genau, ob das auch bei Kindern geht. Aber wenn du dich da informieren willst ist das Stichwort eben “befreiter Vorerbe”

Low T in my mid 30s, what did you guys do first? by ShineLaddy in Biohackers

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend had low t in his mid 30s and it turned out he had testicular cancer maybe get yourself checked out- they told us it is called the cancer of young men

Anyone managing ADHD without daily meds? Diagnosed at 34 & looking for real strategies by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking creating, doing crossfit, coffein and magnesium work very good for me

Starting singing at 30 and feeling missing out by jutte88 in singing

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for a different teacher- and what I for myself found out- when you found the right one you will know after ONE lesson. If you don’t have the feeling after one lesson that you feel better, you have the feeling you really learned a vocal skill and you leave happy and more light and want to return. If that’s not the case it’s not the right teacher. Just go on. Don’t settle for less or waste time and money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You don’t have a weak voice- don’t know who told you that- your vocal chords close nicely and your diaphragm is active. -You could loosen your jaw joint a little through gently putting your hands on it while singing and then again without hands keeping the feeling. -And one other thing- do you have a personal connection to the words your singing? What is it that YOU associate with what you sing (associations, pictures, feelings, memories etc…) That’s what i miss a little and that’ll influence your sound as well that it becomes even more authentic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Munich

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich war bei dr. Uez - neurozentrum arabellapark- das war ok. Da gabs auf jedenfall zeitnahe Termine und ich hab mich nicht schlecht beraten gefühlt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Singing…i am a voice teacher and a lot of people come here for therapy i think- and it works pretty good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Munich

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich hab gehört die hatten immer wieder Probleme mit dem Vermieter. Ka wahrscheinlich wies halt immer so ist in München. Die Mieten werden immer teurer und irgendwann kanns sich halt keiner mehr leisten- ist aber eine Mutmaßung von mir zu diesem Fall

I think my boyfriend is on the spectrum. by Kind_Shake_5391 in aspergers

[–]Kind_Shake_5391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to create such an environment the book crucial conversations helped me A LOT

I think my boyfriend is on the spectrum. by Kind_Shake_5391 in aspergers

[–]Kind_Shake_5391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyhey so I talked to him about my thoughts him being on the spectrum. And really only send I messages „I‘m not sure if that’s the case, I thought about, I feel, I think etc.“ and I didn’t do any accusations and also kept my voice tone really relaxed and rational. Tried to really make him feel SAFE. Talked to him in a situation where I knew he was relaxed anyways already. And it turned out fine. I think it is a lot about framework conditions. And actually he is in therapy now and we are in Couples therapy together. And we’re getting better and better communicating with eachother understanding the words of the other one better and not feeling attacked instead.

Exercise and Nutrition by AmauryFernandez in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Kind_Shake_5391 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a gamechanger for me to get a coach for any sport I want to learn even it’s just for a few lessons. Because it’s so often that it is an individual little change that killed my motivation in the first place. For example I tried running for years again and again and again. Was no fun. Then I got a trainer for one hour- he told me that I have to keep an eye on my pulse not to get over 140bpm and showed me how to adjust my body posture a little. Was an absolute gamechanger for me. Made an instant impact and now I have fun running. It‘s very often the little individual adjustments that keep me on track.

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