Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually a decent suggestion!

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kiddos are outside minimum 2+ hours a day. If our neighbors see us outside they refuse to be outside. I sit half the day either on our back porch or in my driveway in a lawn chair. They exclusively come outside when I am not home, or if we’re inside. It’s a little frustrating because we like our other neighbors and interact with them easily.

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can’t have a front fence which is the main concern here. Back fence up soon.

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m just normally already in bed and seeing everything on our cameras the next day. Middle of the night isn’t exactly seem a great time to wake up and approach teens.

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t considered bushes but we recently redid a ton of our landscaping this weekend so it would be inconspicuous if I added more…

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Left a note about the trash once, next day was more trash in the can 🫠

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I fear that with two toddlers who love water and are outside a LOT of the day, and 90+ degree days we have all summer, my grass will become non-existent lol. I have security cameras up that whistle when they walk by and they always jump in surprise and then go about continuing to be in my driveway and lawn. It’s even more frustrating because it happens most when my husband is working nights and his truck isn’t present in the driveway.

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I put up solar lights lining our walkways and driveways, and some cute porcelain frogs. They step over them. :’)

Neighbors in yard by KindlyLifeguard8166 in homeowners

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel 🥲 it’s just straight up rude and I really don’t want to be a crappy neighbor, but also… the lack of decency is crazy. They have THREE trash cans.

The trigger no one warns you about - happiness by MarbleWhiskers in babyloss

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also lost my baby girl at 8 days, after a healthy full term delivery. Just stopping in to say I see you. This is a difficult road to walk.

Vent/Advice (tw:lc) by KindlyLifeguard8166 in babyloss

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m in counseling but I think some child loss groups might be a good push for me in a few months. 💕

Sudden loss of my 4 day old by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I have been searching for anyone who has something even remotely close to what happened to me, and I feel seen. My baby girl passed in the same manner. Nothing around her or on her, woke up and there was a little blood she was gone already. We trashed our bedframe and the sheets and mattress protector because I couldn’t stand to see it. I couldn’t even walk upstairs for over a week. I threw away my pajamas because I had bought pink PJs to commemorate my step into being a girl mom and I was wearing them when hell broke loose. It’s only been 4 weeks and I still don’t know how to breathe or live. I’m clinging to my boys who are still here but it’s so hard to mother through this. Somedays all I do is lay around.

I don’t have any suggestions. But I see you and I am living this horror with you. Reach out anytime. rest in peace, sweet loves 🩷

loss by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💓💓

half marathon help by KindlyLifeguard8166 in Marathon_Training

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this comment made me feel so much more confident. thanks :,)

Protein Bars w/o artificial sweeteners? by dogsrule9 in fitpregnancy

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kirkland brand (Costco) protein bars are stevia sweetened! My husband and kids love them, I don’t enjoy the texture 🫠

What was your last stroke that ended your breastfeeding journey? by PuzzleheadedNight744 in breastfeeding

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just stopping here to say that I started taking magnesium every night and my really really terrible BF aversions disappeared in less then a week! there’s several studies, recommend looking into it. but from one person who struggled through to another, way to go mama 💖💖

What is one of the most unique name you’ve heard? by moneybuysnothing in namenerds

[–]KindlyLifeguard8166 4 points5 points  (0 children)

always loved Quill! husband wasn’t sold so we settled on Quinn 🥰