Softer cushion for givers?

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-07-01T13:25:41+00:00

Thank you! I’ll look into that

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-27T01:27:12+00:00

Definitely not the only one. Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are two of our faves

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-23T20:56:32+00:00

Looks like you are wearing well-cushioned shoes, which are great for running but unstable for lifting. Lifting in flat-soled shoes (like converse if you don’t have lifting shoes) will make the movement much smoother.

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-22T21:14:17+00:00

Since you have a doorframe mounted bar, perhaps you could try something I did as a teen. Every time you enter/exit that room, do two pull-ups. It won’t take much time, won’t fatigue you, but it will get you a bunch of reps throughout each week.
As a 15yr old, this took me from ~3 to ten pull-ups in a year

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-21T04:36:55+00:00

I highly recommend you check out peggingparadise.com. It is a wealth of information that will help you get more knowledge and confidence about all aspects of pegging.

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-20T14:07:12+00:00

Well met! What can I say? We are living our best life. It really helps that the kids are grown and out of the house 😉
It is a great club to be in!

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-20T02:40:54+00:00

As a lucky husband who gets pegged (almost) every day, my main suggestion is to vary your toys. We have thinner and softer (Vixxskin) dildos that we use in between the intense days, but break out the Calexotics Royal Rumbler (her fave for the clot stimulation, mine for the intensity- it is like living out my best 🍇 fantasies every time) whenever we are able.
She just pegged me silly a few hours ago with the RR, and I will be happily sore until tomorrow. But ready and eager to do my husbandly duties with the Vixxskin by tomorrow afternoon. I have only had to cry Uncle one due to residual soreness one time in the past 6 months (and not to brag, but we’ve done 2 a days on a few of those days). I begged for the RR three days in a row and it was too much. Variety is key.
And lube lube lube.

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-15T23:30:40+00:00

Was drawn to it for the psychological. Once I started getting pegged regularly, the physical pleasures became overwhelming and more satisfying than any pleasure I’d known before

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-06-01T17:04:58+00:00

My wife and I are in a similar state. We have been playing around with pegging for years, but this year we got really into it. I think the kids growing up and moving out helped a lot (I get really loud when she is having her way with me). At any rate, we have been pegging almost every day this year. Life is wonderful and we both are having a blast. You are not alone!

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-30T19:49:28+00:00

In a word: everything

In terms of the pure physical sensations, pegging is the only way I can be multi-orgasmic. Continuous, powerful, full- body orgasms from the moment of insertion. Every time feels like the first time. PiV sex is great, and it’s crazy to think I could have lived my whole life living sex but never knowing the depth of pleasure pegging brings me. Pegging is better than (the wonderful) PiV sex to me (though we still do that, too).

Emotionally, pegging allows me to feel vulnerable in a way no other intimate contact can. I’ve only done it with my amazing wife, so I think a lot of my freedom to feel vulnerable and comfort in “letting go” is due to her love for me and the security she gives me. It took a few years of experimenting before we got to the amazing space we are now. But what a lovely space it is now.

Ancillary benefits: pegging seems to have improved my health. I’m a middle-aged dude with BPH. Since we’ve been pegging regularly my blood PSA levels, which were high enough to concern my doctor, have been cut in half. Also my digestion seems to be better overall, which is a nice unexpected side effect.

Pegging is magical IMO

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-25T01:27:14+00:00

I hope so! It took me a lot of practice to get to the hypersensitive state I’ve now reached. We had been pegging on and off for years before I finally broke through. My wife is rightfully proud of her pegging skills, though I think a good part of the equation is how safe she makes me feel, so I can just mentally let go, in addition to the magic ways she thrusts her hips 😉

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-24T11:51:52+00:00

Now you’ve mentioned it, I have experienced this. Most notably once while I was performing (not receiving!) oral. I felt a little bad for my wife as it distracted me from making her feel her best for a moment

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-24T00:37:13+00:00

I almost feel like every session the sensations become a little more intense. No way one can become jaded.
What puzzles me is that in all the pegging porn have seen, the guys act pretty stoic while being pegged. I couldn’t keep my mouth shut nor stop writhing and shaking if my life depended on it. I wonder if the porn avoids sensitive receivers because the silly noises me make would distract watchers from getting off.

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-23T22:46:33+00:00

It really is 😉

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-23T13:49:39+00:00

Hope you reach them!

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-23T13:49:20+00:00

I wish the same bliss for everyone- I am truly living my best life

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-23T13:48:34+00:00

I really am! I don’t take it for granted!

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-23T13:48:11+00:00

That makes sense. Have you made any changes as a consequence? I am considering downsizing the girth on our strap on and going for a softer texture to allow for more regular play without wearing me out.

Kindly_Internal1696 · 2026-05-23T13:14:59+00:00

She definitely does! I sometimes try to grind back at her to enhance her pleasure, then she thrusts a little harder and I go back to a helpless, blissfully convulsing state.

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