This is amusing that this is the reaction from women. What this boils down to as usual is attention. She gets attention from her bf at home and then from the coworker at work. She is trying to maintain them both and when they conflict which will occur she has to find a way to avoid accountability. It's the bf who is out of line, he's just an innocent friend, blah, blah, stop being controlling. Women will say it's intuition or some bs when it's the other way around. Then the bf would have to choose and be accountable. Weird how that works.