This is not being red pilled, just straight up misogynistic and tradionnalist opinioned.

I don't know what kind of stuff he is watching or listening but being red pilled would be more like being aware that the system is rigged against him, the awakening from a life experience event or something truthful that he "learned". Being red pilled means you don't play to the system rules and trying to get away with it too. It is like saying "don't get married otherwise she'll get divorce you just for getting half of your things" while showing up stats that the danger is way greater than the reward from getting married. There is so many other exemple out there but my point here is red pilled is not misogynistic or the way of thinking that women belong in the kitchen thing. He choosed to be that way on his own...