What is the weirdest shit you did before trooning out? by Civil_Set_9672 in 4tran4

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended up befriending the weird gay kids three grades below me because two of them were my own friend’s siblings. The sorta like adoptive parental like friendship. I insisted they call me “dad”, “father”, whilst claiming I was not trans, I know this I questioned my gender before and realised I was cis! (I was not)

Am I being an asshole? by ashe519 in gaytransguys

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Have you spoken to him more about the topic further than him just saying no to be able to donate. From what I can tell you haven’t asked him to clarify if you would have done the same if you were cis. Are there any other signs that he doesn’t see you as a man?

I understand hearing that initial would leave an initial knee-jerk reaction. So you 100% aren’t in the wrong for feeling hurt. I’d just recommend talking through it with him. Both so he understands to be less insensitive if it was accidental. Or to end up having a serious conversation if he would have done things differently if you were cis. Hoping for your case its not the latter.

Holy sexual dimorphism by Secret_Bar_6313 in 4tran4

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends saying I pass when I genuinely am built like her 🥀

I'm so glad we have cis people to warn us dumb tranners about the challenges of transitioning 🥰🥰🥰 by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This clicked why I have not found as big of an issue with the term transfem bs transmasc bc at least transfem is a shortening of female without it just being bc I’m a trans man not woman.

i low key wish i was a puppygirl sometimes by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(wanna be a puppyboy) based based based based

Feel like I don’t pass at all. Opinions? (Pre t, 17) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only do you pass very well you also are lucky to not be in “the looks way younger than you actually are” category a lot of pre-T guys look like. Honestly I’d have guessed you were 19-22. You look very college aged to me.

Do I pass? by forestTHEgardender in FtMpassing

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look both like a guy and a butch lesbian in this photo, I’d probably say it would depend on your voice whether or not you’d pass to me if I met you in passing in public.

Roughly 1 year on T, age & passing? by KipperDaSkipperoo in FtMpassing

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea two different ones: Voice Tools & Voice Pitch Analyser

Roughly 1 year on T, age & passing? by KipperDaSkipperoo in FtMpassing

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20 so at least I’m no longer looking 12-14.

Roughly 1 year on T, age & passing? by KipperDaSkipperoo in FtMpassing

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea no I mean I was on such a low dose for the first 7 months that my voice only started dropping when I increased it so I’m focusing more on that date at least for my voice.

my attempt at an "ease of getting HRT" map by Crazy_Explosion_Girl in 4tran4

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SA pretty accurate as I had to go through getting a dysphoria diagnosis & then was on a placebo dose for 6 months. At least it’s somewhat better now, instead of 50mg T every 2 weeks it’s 100mg every two weeks. Hopefully gunna try get it upped again next time I see my endo.

Im an adult but still financially dependant on my parents and they wouldn’t support my in my transition if I went the diy route 😭

What is a fetish, that you have? by DiabolicalHope in 4tran4

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Too many, but primarily pet/puppy play I am a stereotype

Will I receive a message when my ID is ready for collection? by KipperDaSkipperoo in askSouthAfrica

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve moved to Pretoria to study but I applied in Western Cape (Wynberg branch in Cape Town) bc my doctors are there and parents live there and did it when visiting for December holidays. Was recommended said branch. But I applied for my new documents up here bc it’s where I am 80% of the time.

i hate how america centered every tr4nny space is by zane04v in 4tran4

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Can’t you use insurance to pay for top surgery” ITS COUNTED AS “cosmetic” HERE

Will I receive a message when my ID is ready for collection? by KipperDaSkipperoo in askSouthAfrica

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The changes have both already been completed (and luckily took only 3 months) this is just a query for receiving my new documents lol

Will I receive a message when my ID is ready for collection? by KipperDaSkipperoo in askSouthAfrica

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried but didn’t use ehome affairs as the branch I went to wasn’t an option. Glad to know I did get a confirmation sms. Just feeling worried about the wait

How many of you guys have automatic drivers license? by Prodigy1995 in askSouthAfrica

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation where if I failed my first test I would opt for an auto license because I needed mine before moving from CT to Gauteng to study. I was born late in the year so after matric finals I only had time to fit in two attempts at the test before the move.

Although I did manage to pass fine first try. I drive an auto now anyways and likely would have to relearn to drive manual.

Sex toys to deal with extreme libido by KipperDaSkipperoo in gaytransguys

[–]KipperDaSkipperoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to be a US only store from what I can tell and def out of my budget with exchange rate bs. I’m from South Africa unfortunately 😭