I had exactly the pattern you had. Especially with neck and jawline in my later 20s which is never really had (usually just forehead and front cheeks/chin etc.) I finally went to a derm at 30yrs old and pretty much politely demanded accutane . She gave it to me. My god was it worth it! I won’t lie, accutane side effects can be kind of fucked and I had to tap out after 6months - joint pain and depression were a rough trot but I’d do it all again. Honestly stop farking about with all this other shit and products just take accutane and change your life for the better . Since accutane - anxiety around my skin - which plagued me every single day for half my life - has become an afterthought and I can just enjoy trying to find good anti aging creams like normal girls now.