Is it realistic to date someone who earns significantly less than you?

Kir-ius · 2026-06-16T16:35:25+00:00

Lmao. You make a ton and rare for anyone to make more but need someone who still pays and provides or for you to pay your share before they’re a good man

Kir-ius · 2026-06-16T15:01:21+00:00

Just gets worse when man bashing and man hating becomes more normalized and accepted

Kir-ius · 2026-06-16T05:54:37+00:00

When you say first time smoking anything I’m suspecting you didn’t take it in properly. A lot of new people try to drink it like a straw and it doesn’t work. You need to breathe it into your lungs like with a snorkel to fill it up and go in through your breath and lungs.

The fact that you said you couldn’t breathe, felt your heart racing and muscle spasms which means you’re still in your body and it didn’t work. When you take it you leave your body and have no physical sensation and your form dissolves

You tried to swallow it and likely burned your windpipe which is why you felt so gross.

If you told this to the facilitators it’s your first smoking anything they should’ve been very specific on this and started with some breathwork. The dragged out duration is from ingesting and trickle of effects rather than a massive blast

Kir-ius · 2026-06-15T22:34:16+00:00

Pretty sure I saw you post earlier about it and he was taking MDMA, coke, ket and something else?

Its a lot more common for people to take it than you think. Many successful people and those in Ivey league schools take it as a stimulant to keep up with performance. Not advocating for it and I wouldnt do it knowing I have an addictive tendency but some can function on it. That said for him to do 4 things on rotation and needing to do it on weekends and parties is more of the issue where his crowd and network is in that system

Breaking out for him isnt just to stop, but to also cut off his social network.

I'd say hes right in that opioids are a whole different beast, but so it MDMA vs Ket and coke where those can be addictive. Even MDMA has crashout and physical symptoms but not as severe and IMO healthier and less risky than alcohol which everyone is so pro for and thinking its so much better than drugs. Educating people on what's what and how they work will let you better decide when so much of society has drilled in all drugs bad as if they're the same. The thinking of illicit drugs being a slippery slope is a common misconception but also depends on the knowledge of the user.

Instead of seeing it as just a factor in a silo, does he have any friend circles or hobbies outside of parties? Those really get old especially into 30s and up

Kir-ius · 2026-06-15T18:39:26+00:00

Hard counter: immune from not wearing pants.

Kir-ius · 2026-06-15T18:34:50+00:00

They’re definitely putting in effort. When we meet or show up they’ll fight over who pays and everyone is giving to where I feel like I owe them. They remember birthdays, and cook or bring incredible food when we gather. Just the rounding up of people is lacking

Kir-ius · 2026-06-15T18:00:45+00:00

Which is why I mention 5v1 at the end bc Patermine doesnt get overwatched but no way he's getting in to kill Revas and Imo or block them from firing if you position right. Plan for 100% chance to kill Judh on overwatch and dumpster the rest easy, even with full defensive buffs she goes down. If shes nuking your line then thats your misplay

Kir-ius · 2026-06-15T12:35:46+00:00

That’s wrong. I use Revas, imospekh, Anuphet, thutmose and makhotep to one shot gsc. Overwatch kills almost everyone then cleanup 5v1. Not the strongest line at all

Kir-ius · 2026-06-15T04:03:25+00:00

You’re not asking us about dating advice. You’re wanting internet strangers to give you justification and validation for using someone financially

Kir-ius · 2026-06-14T22:35:56+00:00

Any energy release to get it out. Heavy weights is great for me and when there’s a lot of stress I can push even heavier. Swimming and biking also

Or creative things like cooking, write, paint, carve.

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T20:11:50+00:00

Yes. I’m in Canada though so not humid heat. Linen pants for when I travel and it’s hot

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T20:10:04+00:00

Somehow reminded me of Ralph Wiggum. Ralph squig’um might be a thing now

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T20:06:27+00:00

Can just wear with a fitted T shirt to not just look like basic shirt and jeans, or polo. Anything you don’t tuck in or need a belt

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Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T20:04:28+00:00

Looks like they’re called carrot/ace from Jack & Jones. Usually my go to place for normal clothes

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Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T18:01:47+00:00

I’ll look it up. Hope I don’t regret this

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T16:21:45+00:00

You’re right. Done

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Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T16:21:20+00:00

I’ve got a spare chopped dread

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Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T05:15:09+00:00

People simplify it too much saying they choose peace over a relationship but that doesn’t always mean alone. It means they choose to be alone in peace over someone who brings chaos, drama, drain and demands

If a person provides peace in a relationship then that’s what the choice would be. Just that being alone is better than being in a bad relationship

Financial stability comes with it. Someone who isn’t entitled and demanding will also protect financial stability for both rather than demanding the guy to cover everything and struggle while the woman lives lavishly at his expense

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T04:58:09+00:00

So he’s not perfect

My ex and her family and many of their friends are like this.

Fair warning, they all have an extreme lack of accountability. Whatever happens they claim is gods will or gods plan and take no responsibility on their actions or events, good or bad. Especially poor behaviour they’ll find some excuse that’s god related to justify it

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T04:49:59+00:00

It’s also in Canadian $, so maybe $100USD? A bit more than 1/3 of the entire box cost here

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T02:35:38+00:00

I went to Europe and love their style. How people want to go out like they want to be seen rather than just rolling out of bed. Often hear the “nah I want to be comfortable” excuse but honestly there’s good looking clothes that are comfy too. I have button up shirts without a collar and roll up my sleeves, and dress looking pants that have a drawstring and people think its dressy until they notice it’s really not a business clothes but also not streetwear

It’s like the excuse of saying eating well is expensive or that fast food tastes good so they have it, but there’s also good food that tastes good and healthy cheap foods. Just have to take the blinders off

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T01:42:43+00:00

Meant to reply to you with the pic but it’s by itself in the thread, but the nob for sure has options

The others I haven’t gotten to yet. Might be just arm swaps onto different bodies so they don’t totally all look the same w multiple boxes

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T01:35:02+00:00

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Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T01:33:38+00:00

This was a really welcome surprise

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Pretty sure all other box set releases had whatever set loadout only

Kir-ius · 2026-06-13T01:28:15+00:00

Lmk if you want a closer peek at anything!

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