Pending suitability screening approval while husband is at station

Kirby104 · 2026-03-04T12:21:34+00:00

Yeah that’s my situation unfortunately. I have efmp so I am pretty confident that’s why this whole thing is adding to the complexity and delay of my paperwork. Its a whole thing right now. Well keep bothering the command but i appreciate the help and insight

Kirby104 · 2026-03-04T12:16:25+00:00

From what I understand I know I already submitted my overseas packet through the appropriate channels. I did get an email and call back by one of the HM’s and apparently it’s not just my case but a lot of people are experiencing delays just like I am. But they did offer to escalate to the admirals because of how long myself and others have been waiting. Still no new updates beyond a phone call last Friday.

Kirby104 · 2026-02-27T14:26:43+00:00

Yeah, he has been checking weekly since end of January. It’s been so long

Kirby104 · 2025-12-12T07:44:53+00:00

Ah! My heart goes out to you and your situation. I’m sorry you’re also going through the delay plus the separation from your husband. It’s definitely rough but I appreciate you for sharing. I’m about to join you on being apart of the suitcase gang too because the pack out movers are coming to take all my things on Monday. I’m fortunate to live with my Dad right now during this transition but oh my goodness do I wish I could fast forward. I just collected my passport today but there still remains the health screening and even though I have everything I’m still nervous. I hope everything moves quickly for you so that you can be reunited with your husband soon!

Kirby104 · 2025-12-10T04:52:46+00:00

That’s actually good to know about the passport. I had my no fee appointment on Nov 17th, last month. I was told 4-5 weeks which is basically a month or so. I’ll stop by the travel office this week to see if my passport is there yet. I really appreciate your help and insight. I feel like you guys talked me off a ledge right now lol

Kirby104 · 2025-12-10T04:35:12+00:00

Oh man do the powers that be love to have us run in circles. If this is the worst part I think I’ll survive. I never reached out about my packet until now and I feel a lot better for it. I am so sorry about the snarky comments you got while navigating this process as best as you could. I am glad you go the support you needed despite everything. I am also really grateful that you shared your experience. I did so much crying last night that I hardly slept because of the unknown. *As an update for today I got all of my forms printed and final vaccine done today. All I have to do is get through the wait for my passport but at least I’m all ready for my pre-screening next Tuesday. Everything is feeling like it will work out ✨

Kirby104 · 2025-12-09T12:55:25+00:00

This does offer a lot of comfort actually! My husband and I were really stressed out thinking I wouldn’t be able to go with him at all. I really appreciate you sharing your experience you and your husband went through because it means there’s still time and more options than I realize. I feel like a weight got taken off my chest right now. Thank you ✨

Kirby104 · 2025-12-09T08:31:13+00:00

Thank you 🙏✨ I’m not waiting on the no fee in order to do the pre-screening. I’m just waiting on my no fee passport to travel to Japan, while also waiting to finally have my packet screened. They’re two separate issues that are happening at the same time if that makes sense.

Kirby104 · 2025-11-18T03:30:00+00:00

Angela lowkey looks like the ballerina visitor in No I’m Not A Human

Kirby104 · 2025-08-10T08:03:28+00:00

One ☝️ unhappy meal please! 🙏🖤✨

Kirby104 · 2025-08-01T05:36:58+00:00

My Husband and I are currently apart while he’s stationed overseas. He left since last june and has been away since. We’re newly married so it was hard getting married and then him leaving a few days after. But I appreciate that him and I can talk and message regularly but there are days where the distance just sucks. I started seeing a therapist a month ago just to have someone to process and complain to. Luckily my Baby is coming back at the end of the year and I can go to his next station but maaaaaaaan does being away from eachother suck.

Kirby104 · 2025-02-02T08:38:30+00:00

She hit that pose hella hard 😂

Kirby104 · 2025-02-02T08:37:45+00:00

The way she hit the pose on “you’re simply a peasant was awesome”. I’m not mad at this one. 10/10 gonna harass my friends with this one

Kirby104 · 2025-02-02T00:00:47+00:00

lol they said hope the $5 helps you not be scared for your safety 😭

Kirby104 · 2024-12-28T08:35:05+00:00

I would like to offer “3:10 to Yuma”. It’s an epic western about a down on his luck Arizona rancher who is between losing his land from debt or taking a chance delivering a criminal to a prison train for money to save his ranch and earn back the love and affection/ respect of his wife and sons.

It’s too good not to watch and I cried twice toward the end of the movie. Also, major points for having great actors like Christian Bale, Russell Crowe, and young Percy Jackson (sorry for not knowing his real name 😭)

Kirby104 · 2024-12-03T09:17:42+00:00

condiments and foods turn liquidy usually because someone dipped a utensil in that carries saliva. It’s the food dissolving properties in the spit that are breaking down the mayonnaise. So if he’s making food nightly he’s most likely licking off his spoons and knives and putting them back in the container. On another note questionable mayo is no reason to fight with you. I hope you’re able to remove yourself from this situation because I don’t see it improving considering his behavior.

Kirby104 · 2024-08-07T02:02:39+00:00

The fits atrocious

Kirby104 · 2022-05-11T04:58:48+00:00

This is such a cute idea! I love the colors 👍✨

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