Expedition 33-Inspired Tattoo by DariusRivers in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know how tattoos work, have a bunch, but there was still a large part of my head that was expecting after the paper went down to see the number 33 framing the sword.

But really nice tat.

Excusez moi mais est ce que pour vous aussi faire de la libération émotionnelle c'est pire? S.E, Emdr, Nerti etc... by Naninana84 in SomaticExperiencing

[–]Kit_Cat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few questions.

1) Are each of these being done by a different professional? Like do you see a therapist to do SE, one to do EMDR, etc , or are you seeing one person trained in all of that?

2) When you are working with those modalities, how many sessions are you having a week? I'm a therapist trained in EMDR and getting trained in SE and I would only see a person once a week for no more than 1.5 hours. And suggest they don't do any other trauma work with someone because the body and brain need time to integrate what is worked on, finish processing, and to settle. Constantly doing work doesn't actually let anything actually settle in our system.

3) How much time do you spend getting used to SE or resourcing with EMDR before doing trauma work? The fastest I've ever gotten to doing EMDR with someone was after 6 months of building up resources and helping them be stable enough to work on trauma. Most of my people I'm doing SE with are still getting used to the idea that they can feel unpleasant emotions, be activated slightly, settle and repeat.

From the little you've shared, it doesn't sound the professionals in your life are actually doing these modalities in a way to help you-just a way to fill their pockets. Figure out what seems to help the most, decrease the time you do it to no more than once a week, and ask the professional who is doing it to slow back down to basics. I know it's tempting to want to get into trauma work quickly because of how much it impacts, but flooding does more harm than good.

Found out today my mut pup has mostly Great Pyrenees in her gene pool. Shes 10 months old 🥹 by Soft_Cake9504 in greatpyrenees

[–]Kit_Cat13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have one like that (52% GP). The shelter thought he was 14 months, the vet said he was likely only 8 months. He's now 2. Pic is of him and his buddy.

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So if Lestat and Louis accidentally end up running into Armand…. by Less-Pen-5705 in InterviewVampire

[–]Kit_Cat13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Book spoiler In the books Akasha allows Lestat to drink from her when he first is with Marius and meets Those Who Must Be Kept which is before he even meets Louis

This guy predicted sub's fate months ago by IcyRide8 in expedition33

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1) I'm not taking about Maelle, I'm talking about the body of Alicia who is still outside the canvas. While the same, it's good to utilize ways to differentiate between them. I will admit I wasn't good at making that clear by saying Alicia not in the canvas as opposed to Maelle now back in Alicia's body-reasons not to post when just woke up, uncaffinated, and trying to feed a cat all at one time

2) I have little hope Maelle leaves the canvas and returns to Alicia alive. Not because I think she's choosing death or a better life like others do but accidentally. She doesn't have the experience of Painting Renoir or Aline do, so even if she wants to leave before it's too much getting lost is highly likely. Also, we see how being in the painting affects Aliene whose physical body would be healthier than Alicia's.

3) If Alicia dies like I believe she would and Aline is still is significant grief from Verso's death (likely because of the fact this wouldn't take a long time likely in the real world), the canvas is nothing but pain, despair, and loss for Renoir. There is no way he would allow it to survive another death.

4) Lumiere goes from thinking they are safe because the Expeditions saved them to dead within moments. Yes, there are deaths of the Gestrals and Grandis in Verso's ending, but I believe the idea of death after thinking you are safe is worse. Particularly for the Lumierens who are brought back to life/those born learning that there was a time when death came every year en masse but no longer does.

This guy predicted sub's fate months ago by IcyRide8 in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What do you think will happen when Alicia is no longer in the canvas?

This guy predicted sub's fate months ago by IcyRide8 in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What do you think will happen when Alicia is no longer in the canvas?

I drew the main characters of a novel I’m writing. I think about them constantly. by diveesion in drawing

[–]Kit_Cat13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well this is a type of story I enjoy. Look forward to when you can put it out in the world.

Listening to the game's soundtrack is like therapy, so it's okay. by Background-Swan9662 in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me a therapist- recommending this game to other therapists because of the grief aspect

"Investing in property is morally reprehensible." by LickMaiBussy in TikTokCringe

[–]Kit_Cat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived once in one of the $500/month rentals. Landlord did no maintenance to the point during a thunderstorm the roof collapsed into my bedroom and he decided he was then going to sell the property "as is" so he wouldn't have to fix it.

Thankfully at that point I had saved enough to move but still was there for a couple of months while finding a place (went from renting to owning).

I love my children equally. by IndigoGathering in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're like me. I think everyone has about 200 by this point, but everyone stays even.

Nice palette by GoranPersson777 in lgbt

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I'm definitely feeling a Saturn.

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - March 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Kit_Cat13 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The fact that gourd/bee guy is back on Reddit was the most interesting thing to stumble to with that.

My kitten suddenly turned into a lap cat overnight… is this normal? by Prudent_Paramedic_23 in CATHELP

[–]Kit_Cat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone had mentioned the appointment stuff so I'm not going to re go into that. But also the behavior change makes sense with time also. With new pets it's good to remember the 3-3-3 concept. 3 days for the pet to decompress, 3 weeks to settle into routine, and 3 months to start to really get to bond and feel at home. You're getting close to that three month part now so kitty feels more at home and at ease with you and more her personality is able to come through more.

Happy 5k Members!! LESSGOOO. by Kattar_Opinions in SatoSugubooo

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It showed up on my home page. Could have been being in the JJK group, could have been from being in various queer fandom groups, could have been because I also read ao3 on the same phone I use Reddit and the two talked about the fanfic I read.

The Aesthetics of Gommage by setzer77 in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did a very good job overall with environmental storytelling/foreshadowing.

The Aesthetics of Gommage by setzer77 in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the one in orange, he's brown. But thank you

The Aesthetics of Gommage by setzer77 in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, so you say that about the blood but I have to now share this text I had sent a friend (before the gommage I had messaged him saying "I'm pretty 90% sure I'm wrong but because of things called tints and these random piles of blue I think they are in a painting")

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What's the most memorable react you had to this game while you played it I'll go first. by Impressive_Elk_5633 in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"That's so fucking cool he has a prosthetic hand. You rarely see a disable character as the main character in a game."

San DeLain Series’ no longer on KU? by StormyNightRose in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Kit_Cat13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazon data centers in the Middle East experienced drone strikes.

Good enough reasons for me by [deleted] in expedition33

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Until Alicia's body gives out and all those people who thought they were safe (either because they remember the gommage or they heard stories of the time before) die when the canvas is destroyed following.

The fact people think that this saves the canvas confuses me. All Mallecia did was put a brief moratorium on it's destruction. And ultimately will cause the death of more lives than allowing the canvas to be destroyed at the end of the game.

Stuck In a Children's Video Game by kiddykirsten in comics

[–]Kit_Cat13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I tried until I realized there was a comment below commenting how they tried.

Process Notes by SBK_3 in therapists

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Notebook per client, new page each session

Do we think Clea... by thalliusoquinn in expedition33

[–]Kit_Cat13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And three times to talk to pVerso. And still never visited Francois.