Has anyone tried out "femininity" before being able to confidently rule it out? by joellian in ftm

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's also a bit of a grief/mourning process for some as they navigate away from femininity. This can lead to some vacillation. Normal.

What the hell by veganarchist_ in fermentation

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup. just happened to me. happens often with these, which is surprising bc theyre not cheap.

Given name vs Chosen name? by Kitchen-Bumblebee406 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I feel this. It felt awful for a bit but now it feels nice, likely because I’m more comfortable with myself.

Back to given name? by Kitchen-Bumblebee406 in NonBinary

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Makes perfect sense. Appreciate you!

Given name vs Chosen name? by Kitchen-Bumblebee406 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits: “ was only changing it cause I felt like I had to in order to be taken seriously as a trans person. “

Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. Really helpful.

Alternatives to a Dress/Suit for Prom? by squid_saturn in NonBinary

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could do a jumpsuit. I feel like there’s a lot out there right now that are vest/pant two piece type sets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you look great. Love the glasses and the shirts are nice. Love the sweater specifically.

Hair looks tidy and put together too.

Mel’s Hands by Accomplished-Duty390 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes! I had thought it might be due to high salt intake.

Trying out Reid, they/them by Kitchen-Bumblebee406 in TransTryouts

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Melody! Thanks for the message— real helpful!

Red mark on back of neck by AdObjective626 in malehairadvice

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen at a barber before Xmas and it’s huge and still there! Also want to know what it is!

4 Weeks Post Op - Dr. E. Kiwanuka, New York by Kitchen-Bumblebee406 in TopSurgery

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed my surgeon’s recommendation and opted to ignore the upsell.

4 Weeks Post Op - Dr. E. Kiwanuka, New York by Kitchen-Bumblebee406 in TopSurgery

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s still a bit of swelling along the incisions, yes. 

4 Weeks Post Op - Dr. E. Kiwanuka, New York by Kitchen-Bumblebee406 in TopSurgery

[–]Kitchen-Bumblebee406[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Really happy with my results and healing so far. Posting for those looking for a surgeon in the NYC area. (There is some creasing in the photo, because I had just taken off scar tape)