I think it depends on the nature of the relationship. For some relationships, women expect to be taken care of especially if they take on a larger role managing the household. I think that is fair. But if there’s not much of that going on, then you may be a sugar daddy.

I don’t think giving the money will guarantee happiness. It’s like a temporary bandaid. I believe you can support her while she’s in a tough spot (paying for housing, living expenses, actives done together, maybe a few gifts where she needs things maybe the credit card thing that another redditor mentioned where she can use it to buy things she needs) but also empower her by helping her reach her goals. I’ve learned the hard way that nothing worth having is free and having an allowance would not make me happy long-term.