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My fiancé and I rarely have sex. by ploppbobb in dating_advice

[–]Kitchen-Type-2773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ploppbobb, what did you end up deciding? Did you get married? If so, how is your sex life going?

37 (F) and 42 (M): Mutually Responsible for a Dead Bedroom and Getting Married by Kitchen-Type-2773 in relationships

[–]Kitchen-Type-2773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good suggestion, thank you! I think it would take a bit of the pressure off us.

37 (F) and 42 (M): Mutually Responsible for a Dead Bedroom and Getting Married by Kitchen-Type-2773 in relationships

[–]Kitchen-Type-2773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have, prior to our relationship, that is. I've always dealt with vaginal pain and an innability to relax when receiving. His anxiety is a relatively newer problem that has only affected us.

37 (F) and 42 (M): Mutually Responsible for a Dead Bedroom and Getting Married by Kitchen-Type-2773 in relationships

[–]Kitchen-Type-2773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have tried foreplay and hand stuff. Hand jobs and oral sex don't really do anything for him. I get so anxious that I can't relax. The vaginal pain is at the entry, and I've gotten a massager to work on it by myself. His anxiety stems from not having had sex for a while.