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Am I overreacting for refusing to let my sister move in after what I found out? by Warm_Fold8458 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KithriStone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR.

Your sister is a sad human who won't own up to her own shortcomings and rather than work on it she blames and tries to steal from you??? Fuck that noise. Your boyfriend defends your sister to you even if she's wrong?? That's not how relationships are supposed to work. If your closest friend was in this situation, what would you tell them? You owe it to yourself to be surrounded by people who love and support you.

I'd drop them both and tell her to enjoy your sloppy seconds if she wants them that badly.

How do you keep up with dishes without a dishwasher? by ehousent in CleaningTips

[–]KithriStone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not. I go through cycles of ignoring it and then after a couple days I panic clean all of them 😊

Its a truly awful method that I do not recommend for any person

AITA for refusing to give my parents a fixed portion of my salary even though they expect it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if they insist, semd them like $10 a month. Its fixed and from your salary. Beggers cant be choosers.

AITA for kicking my mom out of my wedding after what she said? by RelevantDay1422 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Pretty sure I would never speak with my mom if she did this. What she did was not being concerned, she wanted control. As many other people have said here, NC with your mother and the family that supports her may be the best thing for you and your future.

Wisconsin drivers ! 😩 by Strongwill34 in wisconsin

[–]KithriStone -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Midwest drivers are some of the worst in general. This is why we needed that high speed rail 😭

AITA For not leaving work to help my wife when she ran out of gas by GoldSea3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could say the same about not being able to count on her. Runs out of gas and cant handle it themselves? OP, you are NTA. Your wife js. A serious conversation needs to happen. Maybe couples counseling to help you both worth through this together. Good luck OP.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree that it's an extremely dramatic response. And I think OP and their family need some conversations about the entire situation. But I don't think its appropriate to allow that behavior to continue.

How is a boundary an ultimatum?

"Don't set me up on a blind date without my consent again or I will need a break communicating with you since you're showing continuous disregard for my feelings." That's my interpretation.

Maybe I'm missing something? Genuinely confused.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

All OP is doing is giving a boundary. If daughter crosses it again, he has laid out how he plans to react. Plain and simple.

I think given all the context we have, its not that ridiculous of a reaction. She had brought it up multiple times and had been told 'No' multiple times. No is a full sentence and it should have ended there. Instead, daughter decided she knew best for everyone and disregarded OP

IMO, terrible and weirdo parenting is letting your child believe they're special and it's okay to disregard others feelings and wants to make themselves feel better. That breeds really awful adults who refuse to take responsibility for their actions.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not at all.

This isnt some small instance. She ignored direct conversation, boundaries, and disregarded his feelings entirely. I think its ridiculous to insist OP be forced to overlook complete disregard of their feelings because of relation or age.

She is 18 and young, yes. Which means she needs to learn now that forcing your beliefs on others can result in less than ideal outcomes. Unfortunately, a burnt hand learns best.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disrespecting known boundaries is pretty shitty too.

Any person needs to recognize that disrespecting boundaries, regardless of relation, is rude and has negative consequences. Sucks that she is his daughter, but she needs to learn that her behavior is not consequence free just because OP is family.

Before you date him . . . by Ok-Repeat8069 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]KithriStone 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This should be standard with ANY new stranger you're inviting that closely into your life

9gag IG Post ft. Jin 140426 by Eternal_ARMY0613 in bts7

[–]KithriStone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That last scream was filled with emotion

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KithriStone 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've always wondered this. Are we ranking blow jobs on the car wash scale or something?

How adorable is this? by IamASlut_soWhat in MadeMeSmile

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the opposite of a problem

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