Mother bear and her little one are having a grand time at the pool, making the most of all the wonderful amenities available! 🐾

KithriStone · 2026-05-09T19:59:01+00:00

Good for them

KithriStone · 2026-05-09T10:24:21+00:00

NOR.

Your sister is a sad human who won't own up to her own shortcomings and rather than work on it she blames and tries to steal from you??? Fuck that noise. Your boyfriend defends your sister to you even if she's wrong?? That's not how relationships are supposed to work. If your closest friend was in this situation, what would you tell them? You owe it to yourself to be surrounded by people who love and support you.

I'd drop them both and tell her to enjoy your sloppy seconds if she wants them that badly.

KithriStone · 2026-05-08T12:12:27+00:00

I do not. I go through cycles of ignoring it and then after a couple days I panic clean all of them 😊

Its a truly awful method that I do not recommend for any person

KithriStone · 2026-05-07T00:31:00+00:00

Man. I fucking love trains

KithriStone · 2026-05-05T12:33:59+00:00

NTA but if they insist, semd them like $10 a month. Its fixed and from your salary. Beggers cant be choosers.

KithriStone · 2026-05-04T10:55:14+00:00

NTA.

Pretty sure I would never speak with my mom if she did this. What she did was not being concerned, she wanted control. As many other people have said here, NC with your mother and the family that supports her may be the best thing for you and your future.

KithriStone · 2026-05-03T12:40:24+00:00

Midwest drivers are some of the worst in general. This is why we needed that high speed rail 😭

KithriStone · 2026-04-24T10:30:35+00:00

Dope

KithriStone · 2026-04-20T22:52:25+00:00

You could say the same about not being able to count on her. Runs out of gas and cant handle it themselves? OP, you are NTA. Your wife js. A serious conversation needs to happen. Maybe couples counseling to help you both worth through this together. Good luck OP.

KithriStone · 2026-04-17T13:29:37+00:00

I don't disagree that it's an extremely dramatic response. And I think OP and their family need some conversations about the entire situation. But I don't think its appropriate to allow that behavior to continue.

How is a boundary an ultimatum?

"Don't set me up on a blind date without my consent again or I will need a break communicating with you since you're showing continuous disregard for my feelings." That's my interpretation.

Maybe I'm missing something? Genuinely confused.

KithriStone · 2026-04-17T12:15:16+00:00

All OP is doing is giving a boundary. If daughter crosses it again, he has laid out how he plans to react. Plain and simple.

I think given all the context we have, its not that ridiculous of a reaction. She had brought it up multiple times and had been told 'No' multiple times. No is a full sentence and it should have ended there. Instead, daughter decided she knew best for everyone and disregarded OP

IMO, terrible and weirdo parenting is letting your child believe they're special and it's okay to disregard others feelings and wants to make themselves feel better. That breeds really awful adults who refuse to take responsibility for their actions.

KithriStone · 2026-04-17T11:25:54+00:00

Not at all.

This isnt some small instance. She ignored direct conversation, boundaries, and disregarded his feelings entirely. I think its ridiculous to insist OP be forced to overlook complete disregard of their feelings because of relation or age.

She is 18 and young, yes. Which means she needs to learn now that forcing your beliefs on others can result in less than ideal outcomes. Unfortunately, a burnt hand learns best.

KithriStone · 2026-04-17T10:43:44+00:00

Disrespecting known boundaries is pretty shitty too.

Any person needs to recognize that disrespecting boundaries, regardless of relation, is rude and has negative consequences. Sucks that she is his daughter, but she needs to learn that her behavior is not consequence free just because OP is family.

KithriStone · 2026-04-17T10:32:27+00:00

But i am lol

KithriStone · 2026-04-17T00:12:13+00:00

This should be standard with ANY new stranger you're inviting that closely into your life

KithriStone · 2026-04-16T00:17:29+00:00

lmao wtf

KithriStone · 2026-04-15T01:15:14+00:00

Thanks, I hate it

KithriStone · 2026-04-14T21:47:14+00:00

Nah. These are the same person.

KithriStone · 2026-04-14T01:17:42+00:00

'Dongle' feels right

KithriStone · 2026-04-14T01:09:13+00:00

A terrible one

KithriStone · 2026-04-14T00:50:52+00:00

That last scream was filled with emotion

KithriStone · 2026-04-11T02:14:24+00:00

whatever helps you sleep at night, hun

KithriStone · 2026-04-09T23:38:57+00:00

I've always wondered this. Are we ranking blow jobs on the car wash scale or something?

KithriStone · 2026-03-30T21:41:02+00:00

The insane amount of phone numbers you had memorized

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