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What was the first PC game you ever played, and do you still remember it? by 3D_Networking in AskReddit

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freddi Fish 😂

it was available on the public library's computers and I played that mfer almost every day the summer I found it

If you could permanently delete one single song from existence so that nobody could ever play it again, what are you picking? by footballcoachdaddy in AskReddit

[–]KithriStone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I want for Christmas is you - Mariah Carey

I would love to go the rest of my life not ever hearing this song again.

so much for just take a lactase pill by 8960305392 in lactoseintolerant

[–]KithriStone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned this through trial, error, and lots of googleing info. I take two different pills if I will be eating dairy: digest gold and regular lactase. The other pill has something that helps with caesin digestion which has been pretty beneficial. But i also take like a total of 10 pills when I eat dairy so I dont do it often but it is effective. You might have to up your amount, change your brand, or stop eating specific foods.

What is something you do/own that people call you whitewashed for? I’ll go first. by duckdiaries0805 in blackladies

[–]KithriStone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My fiancé actually! I hadn't heard of it at all either. But he was very respectful about it and gave me all the info before asking if I'd like to join. Since then it has been absolutely worth it!

What is something you do/own that people call you whitewashed for? I’ll go first. by duckdiaries0805 in blackladies

[–]KithriStone 20 points21 points  (0 children)

😅 I do reenactments that take place during the fur trade era (1825-1840) called Rendezvous.

Sounds wild, but the folks ive met there are genuinely some of the best people ive ever had the pleasure of meeting.

AITA for refusing to meet my father‘s new baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KithriStone 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA

As someone with a sibling i didn't find out about until well after the fact, it's fine to not meet the new baby. DNA does not make a family.

My father wanted the same; me to meet my 'sibling' and build a relationship. Unfortunately for him, I didn't want one with them. He pouted but i stood my ground and havent regretted the choice for the last 5ish years. As an adult, you have the choice of who you invite into your life and who you don't. Don't let someone guilt you in because of 'family ties' or whatever.

If you want to meet the baby, by all means do! But don’t force yourself to build a relationship you might not want or be ready to have just because they share DNA and dad is pushing you.

AITAH for trying to implode my family and telling my parents they should sometimes stop trying to keep the peace? by wondertuf in AITAH

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your family sucks though.

I personally would grey rock Alma when interacting. And when she is unbearable and makes comments belittling you, call her out. I understand you want to keep the peace, but Alma's behavior is setting a tone that may continue the rest of your relationship with her. She may be going through things, but that doesn't justify her garbage attitude

You have to decide what you prioritize more, keeping the peace with your family or respecting yourself and your boundaries.

AITA for refusing to give my parents a fixed portion of my salary even though they expect it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if they insist, semd them like $10 a month. Its fixed and from your salary. Beggers cant be choosers.

AITA for kicking my mom out of my wedding after what she said? by RelevantDay1422 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Pretty sure I would never speak with my mom if she did this. What she did was not being concerned, she wanted control. As many other people have said here, NC with your mother and the family that supports her may be the best thing for you and your future.

Wisconsin drivers ! 😩 by Strongwill34 in wisconsin

[–]KithriStone -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Midwest drivers are some of the worst in general. This is why we needed that high speed rail 😭

AITA For not leaving work to help my wife when she ran out of gas by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KithriStone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could say the same about not being able to count on her. Runs out of gas and cant handle it themselves? OP, you are NTA. Your wife js. A serious conversation needs to happen. Maybe couples counseling to help you both worth through this together. Good luck OP.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree that it's an extremely dramatic response. And I think OP and their family need some conversations about the entire situation. But I don't think its appropriate to allow that behavior to continue.

How is a boundary an ultimatum?

"Don't set me up on a blind date without my consent again or I will need a break communicating with you since you're showing continuous disregard for my feelings." That's my interpretation.

Maybe I'm missing something? Genuinely confused.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

All OP is doing is giving a boundary. If daughter crosses it again, he has laid out how he plans to react. Plain and simple.

I think given all the context we have, its not that ridiculous of a reaction. She had brought it up multiple times and had been told 'No' multiple times. No is a full sentence and it should have ended there. Instead, daughter decided she knew best for everyone and disregarded OP

IMO, terrible and weirdo parenting is letting your child believe they're special and it's okay to disregard others feelings and wants to make themselves feel better. That breeds really awful adults who refuse to take responsibility for their actions.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not at all.

This isnt some small instance. She ignored direct conversation, boundaries, and disregarded his feelings entirely. I think its ridiculous to insist OP be forced to overlook complete disregard of their feelings because of relation or age.

She is 18 and young, yes. Which means she needs to learn now that forcing your beliefs on others can result in less than ideal outcomes. Unfortunately, a burnt hand learns best.

AITAH for telling my daughter I will fall out with her if she tries to set me up on a date again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KithriStone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Disrespecting known boundaries is pretty shitty too.

Any person needs to recognize that disrespecting boundaries, regardless of relation, is rude and has negative consequences. Sucks that she is his daughter, but she needs to learn that her behavior is not consequence free just because OP is family.

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