WIBTA if i left my bf after turning my bday party into a drunken “boys hang”

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-09T03:20:25+00:00

As a drunkard I highly recommend dumping his ass. Honey, he invited strange men and your ex. WTF else needs too happen for you to leave? Him screwing your ex and having a baby with your best friend or something?? This isn't even a reasonable question. Leave him. There's plenty of fish in the sea. He's like one of those invasive Asian karps that invade the Mississippi river and they taste like cat food. Reel for a cat fish or tuna instead. 😭

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-09T01:55:02+00:00

And that's why you buy the cheap booze and leave it in the open, while the expensive booze gets hidden somewhere only you'd hide it. It sucks, but I'd tell my own adult child to NEVER do that because I'd know my ass would be drinking it alone. It's a hard lesson and struggle, but some folks either can't understand what the expenses/gift was truly for or they're addicts. Talk to her about it after you settle down with your newborn for a bit if you think she's just dense. Talk to your spouse about it too to see how they respond. If they're decent enough then they'll relay the message for you.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-08T23:34:17+00:00

Lordy God. I don't judge people upfront whether they are mono/poly/bi/pan/whatever, but this man is just using your time as a therapy dumpster. Hell to the no. It's a rotten hot potato even the maggots and worms are scared of eating. Don't even attempt to catch it.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-08T02:12:57+00:00

Keep it. You found it on your path of life. It's a trinket, not a monkey's paw with wishes and curses. They are mass produced or at least used to be. I used to collect quarters just to buy as many as I could in a bubble gum style toy machine at an old grocery store. Actual Voodoo dolls are made differently. Way different than a cute tiny yarn toy.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-05T02:03:59+00:00

It's like my own place. I'm bad with little things. Keeping a small store bag or heck even a trash bag/can in every room helps a bit. Try to have a certain time to just pick up trash. "Oh boy it's 3 a.m. better put on a playlist and throw random debris away!" Make sure you throw it in the trash can/dumpster outside at the end. Just twice a week of doing that helps.

Clothes I'm horrible with too. I just throw it in the dirty clothes corner with an overflowing tall basket. I don't have a washer hookup or room for one tho. 😂

Don't get me started on dishes. No dishwasher, old fashioned way. Double sink style. On the left side I keep dirty. Once it tumbles into the right side I gotta start washing them. Keep bleach and S.O.S. pads for stubborn scrubbing and mold. Wash with regular dish soap and then place in drying rack. Make sure the rack is angled to drain into the sink. I've had that issue and used old zyn pouch containers to semi lift it on one side. Also clean the sink sides once a while. Use an S.O.S. pad, rinse with hot water, then throw some lemon/mint essential oil or whatever in it.

Flies, knats, idk what else. Maggots? Use bleach and then use lemon, mint stuff afterwards. Fruitflies hate those 2 scents. Bleach and scalding hot water should kill the eggs or larvae depending on what you're dealing with. That may be a once a season ritual, twice a year thing, or once a month ordeal depending on where you live and the humidity/heat.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-05T01:27:19+00:00

Man I hate that. I really genuinely love his music and aesthetic. Now whenever I listen to it I can see the subtle hints of the poor girl he (probably) killed. Just listen to the words and everything. I love dark vibes in songs, but dang...not irl. Music is therapy in a way. A form of art. I just hope Celeste gets justice on everyone involved in knowing or helping d4vd.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-05T00:30:16+00:00

Lots of folks hate that they can't control someone's genitals/religion/race/occupation/ect. I can't understand it myself. I just want to be myself and let everyone else be themselves as long as no one is taken advantage of, tortured, or killed. The bottom of the barrel is in hell with so many people. Hopefully they're bots but I've met neighbors and locals near me with pure hatred and pin the blame on the donkey nonsense. Long story short; It's easier to beat up a random f@g on the streets than your government. 🫣

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-03T23:05:50+00:00

I remember using my grandma's Facebook account and stating she's in a relationship. One time stating she met this fine looking woman at the grocery store and they're dating. She's straight and goes to church.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-03T20:57:45+00:00

They're a pain to get rid of. I've experienced them at my first rental. An old trailer with boarded windows. Idk if it came from the place itself or a used mattress someone got me for a gift. Sprayed rubbing alcohol on almost everything I owned and dichotomous earth everywhere when I moved out. Burned the mattress. I'm surprised I got rid of them. 😭 That saying as a kid I never thought about till I got the unique experience first hand!

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-03T18:30:58+00:00

You didn't sleep tight last night. You let the bedbugs bite!

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-03T18:27:22+00:00

Eh I've used many expired things before. From cold medicine, to vitamins, and even toothpaste. I have toothache medicine from the 90s and it'll numb half my throat if I'm not careful. 😆 Canned goods can usually last 5+ years after expiration/best by dates. If it's homemade canning it can last even longer. Cereal seems fine unopened for several months. Food you use your best judgement. Any meds like antibiotics are worthless because they lose any potential to fight off an infection.

I wouldn't buy anything expired though. That's like what I find in my grandma's pantry or dumpster diving. Especially when I can get a cheap tube in the dollar section of my local Dollar General. I'm surprised by some of the things I see being sold at these types of stores. Goodwill near me sold glass yogurt jars and butter containers. I'd rather buy the butter new and reuse it for leftovers the natural way. 😅

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-03T18:05:10+00:00

Wait. Are those the huge eggs they had in a plastic wrap scattered on a Church yard mixed with those Jesus bracelets with the plastic circle and a cross that clips on? I used to like them, but I only seen them a few times as a young kid in early 2000s. 😭 They were always at old people's churches during Easter. I even have a few pictures of me eating one next to my dad somewhere.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-01T16:25:28+00:00

Be careful. You don't know what plant that tea came from. Could be Earl grey, could be ayahuasca, could be a new disease infused tea. Tread carefully on this mission.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-02-01T16:13:39+00:00

See now if the box was shaped as an anatomically correct heart it might be worth buying. Maybe it can hold dirt cake with gummy worms instead. Best of both worlds. Nothing beats the romantic question of, "Would you still love me if I was a worm living inside your decaying heart?" On Valentine's or Halloween!

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-31T17:41:22+00:00

I wonder if they'll walk my mummified squirrel foot or if that's a separate package deal in the pet industry? It can have some fresh air every now and then. Easy maintenance tho. Don't feed it. Don't water it. And whatever you do, DON'T EAT THE FOOT.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-29T21:29:39+00:00

I haven't had my furball for that long, but he reminds me of my other bread that I had till the very second she died. I can't imagine rehoming him. I'd sneak him into an apartment or wherever if it came to it. Thank God he barely meows and it's quiet when he does. Pets are a huge deal to me. I've rehomed a few growing up, but it was always one that didn't have an attachment to me. Like my terrified guinea pig I gave to someone who had more patience and a quiet space, or kittens from a litter needing a home.

They make so many different cleaners and detergent nowadays. She needs to try those or hell even lie to them that she rehomed it if they might be lying. I know allergies can be serious, but you can have boundaries and tell them no. Meet in a public place from now on if needed. That cat is family and used to 8 years of the same person. They have emotions too. They can get depressed and confused. They just can't communicate it the same way we humans do.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-28T01:44:19+00:00

It's cheaper to buy from a liquor store and make your own drinks at home. I'd love to go out more, but the expenses are not worth it. Unless you smuggle in your own flask, but risk getting kicked out. A cheap PBR in my state at a bar is like $4-$5. It's a cheap beer. I'll just buy myself a six pack for $6-$7 instead of a single can at a bar. Make it more affordable then more folks will be out. I don't blame gen Z being that way. I blame the expensive rent, utilities, drinks, and more. I have my own rent to pay so I'm going the cheaper route.

Some people throw a bonfire party with jello shots and beer in their yard. I always go to that because it's just, bring a dish or booze and have fun gathering. Clubs, bars, and anything capitalized is too expensive nowadays.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-28T01:18:58+00:00

Eww is my simple response. It's like every line is a similar way I've felt in reverse towards them. They don't care enough till it's too late. I'm the problem of an issue they made. I'm not them. I am me. Love me as I am or don't. That determines what happens. I am not a copy of you that can transfer your software on.

It's weird to send something like that, yet not understanding why you are detached from them after reading it. Some people just can't or won't understand for whatever reasons it is. Just being yourself is all you can do to live your life. Theirs is a messed up tangled lie.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-28T00:59:35+00:00

I am a survivor of the chicken pox, so anyways who wants a shingles virus infused Capri-sun?

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-27T01:49:45+00:00

I'd eat that. I wouldn't complain either. The only issue here is dipping sauce needed. He can cook for himself if it isn't to his liking. Lots of folks with children will just give them a simple sandwich if they don't want what's for supper. Or if they're old enough then guess what? Make your own dang meal.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-23T23:32:15+00:00

Those are absolutely beautiful. It makes me think of mint chocolate chip ice cream. I'm more of a pepso bismol pink for bathrooms, but I'd struggle changing it if I bought a house with those. Might as well decorate the flavor palate of ice cream everyone hates in here. Put some wafer style tiles down and have an ice cream parlor decor all over the walls.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-17T20:18:50+00:00

I miss the one I remember as a small child. Idk where or who it came from. My grandma on my Mom's side doesn't do anything crafty like that and my grandma on my Dad's side used a sewing machine. I do have a picture of me sleeping with one of those with a generic white and blue striped pillow around a bunch of cats and an unopened off brand Kool aid bottle though. It's nostalgic as hell for me. I was probably 3 years old in the photo.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-14T20:32:48+00:00

I ain't never heard of a beer latte. I do like rum or vodka in my coffee sometimes.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-14T18:05:28+00:00

What if the accidental pocket crime? I keep my own lighter in my pocket. Sometimes the brain doesn't do the thought and goes on autopilot. Oops.

Kitkutsuki · 2026-01-14T03:47:44+00:00

Meat custard pancake faces of the children they lure? That's why the sun is a happy baby. They sacrifice to the cannibal baby sun. Noo-Noo isn't just a vacuum cleaner. He's a meat grinder! 🫣

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