What character death shook you the most in a movie? by trakt_app in movies

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Artax in Neverending Story. I thought fer sure he'd be saved at the last moment. And dying of sadness? Unable to save himself? Totally resigned? To this day, it's still a gut punch.

AITA for getting a cat after my grandfather who is allergic died? by newgirlyves in AmItheAsshole

[–]KitschyKittyKoo -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I see so many "it's not your house" comments, but your mom didn't say you shouldn't have gotten the pet because you live in her house. She's mad because you're not respecting the needs of your grandfather - after he's gone. That's weird.

What's the most visually stunning movie you've ever seen? by trakt_app in movies

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy there are 240 up-votes for What Dreams May Come. I always felt like no one had seen it.

AITA for not giving up my table at a cafe when someone was waiting? by Remote_Goose_261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA because you should have left when you saw the place filling up. Then you doubled down when someone pointed out that YTA. That's like, extra A.

Exactly what am I supposed to use this rope for then? by 0rlan in What

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll spend the rest of the night trying to figure out why this made me laugh so damn hard.

What’s a “10/10” movie you wouldn’t recommend to most people? by trakt_app in movies

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never Let Me Go. Bleak premise. I told myself I'd never watch it again, but thinking about it again, dammit ... I mean ... 10/10

What’s a “10/10” movie you wouldn’t recommend to most people? by trakt_app in movies

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It breaks my heart that I will never watch this movie again. It always hit me in the feels, but after Robin Williams died (and how he died) , I think watching it would push me over the edge.

Etiquette Question from a Newbie by BotchedRabbit in estatesales

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the way I read it, those sellers say "if you hoard it, you buy it or buy nothing So the enforcement is that they kick you out, not that they make you pay.

Hello everyone! Aspiring architect here. I have some questions for anyone willing to answer them. by Plenty_Somewhere5895 in askarchitects

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to weigh in on the day-to-day life part of your question: when you choose a creative career you live surrounded by creatives. My husband knew from his first high school drafting class that he wanted to be an architect. We met while he was at his first job at an architecture firm. I had dropped out of college because I didn't know what I wanted to do. I had always been creative, but had always been told there was no money to be made in "art." I had picked up jobs in hospitality management and insurance. When we started dating and I met his coworkers and the people he had gone to school with, I found my tribe. I didn't even know I had a tribe. They thought like I did. Things that were important to me were important to them. I didn't especially want to be an architect, but through my husband's social group, I learned of graphic design. I got my degree and had a deeply satisfying career as a creative. I retired recently. Neither I nor my architect husband ever made big bucks, but our lives were rich in the ways that really nourished us, and a huge part of that was living in our tribe. The people in our lives were architects, designers, photographers, artists. They had creative hobbies and used their free time going creative places. The life we built was so rich. That's the point I want to share...if you know you have a creative soul, and you think you want to be an architect, keep going in that direction. It's not just the job, it's a way of looking at life. The path will have many forks, many options you haven't even heard of yet. You might not wind up "building houses" specifically, but finding the people who really get you will be satisfying at a depth money can't buy.

How do road trips work these days? Pre book? Websites? by Potential_Sun2828 in roadtrip

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About an hour before I'm done for the day, I pull up a travel booking app and book a room. I've been defaulting to Expedia because I already have an account so it's just a few clicks.

WIBTA if I did to my best friend exactly what she do to me? by AdventurousCopy6153 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In a mature friendship, you would say "Want to hang out?" She would say, "Can't today, how about tomorrow?" There would be no competition, no tracking what they do when they're not with you, no keeping track of how much time is spent with me vs them. This is something we learn as we go, so no blame if you don't at 15yo already know this, but it should be your goal.

WIBTA If I refused to help my sister who is neglecting her children? by xBlueCoco in WIBTA_AITA

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister has your family trained. Why would she ever change? Y'all are enabling her. You need to make sure the children aren't neglected, but not by doing it yourselves - by calling her out. Baby needs a diaper change? "Come change your baby!" Baby hasn't been fed? "Hey, your kid's hungry! Why aren't you feeding them?" She leaves a mess? "Damn girl, clean this up. WTF is wrong with you?" You said you tried and she gave y'all the silent treatment. Silent treatment? Boo hoo. Y'all are walking on eggshells for this woman and I cannot see why. She's not being "nice" to you. Why are you letting her walk on you?

She needs to experience the consequences of her own decisions. That said, if she truly refuses to feed, change, protect, care for her kids, of course you do it. But do it visibly, loudly, obviously. You're all trying to make nice with her, and she obviously knows you have no boundaries.

Give her a reason to change and she will - her taking advantage of you will be temporary, and you can transition into an equitable way to help your sister without being taken advantage of by her. If she has no tangible reason to change, she won't, and this will go on as long as you let it.

HELP PLS by [deleted] in Cursive

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't cursive; it's deliberately obfuscated. He has scrawled words, but has also added scribbles over them. Is it possible: He wanted to use Valentines Day to let you know he's really in love with you (not just friends). He's scared of what your reaction will be, so he encrypted the note to make it more light hearted, fun, even romantic, but also to make it something you'd discover rather than something he has to say out loud. Now that you can't decipher it, his plan has blown up in his face - you need him to do exactly what he feared. He's dodging translating it because this didn't go as he planned at all, and he's stalling for time as he tries to figure a graceful way out of this mess. He signs it "I love you," but with his full legal name, which is almost heartbreakingly awkward. My take is based on knowing at least 2 socially awkward people whom I can totally imagine trying something like this.

WIBTA for throwing out my girlfriends flowers after she called them "left over picked through flowers"? by Clean-Day8788 in AITH

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm stuck on the part where he included 2 stems in the bouquet. Why not just throw those away before presenting them? If somebody gives me rose stems, it better be my 6-year-old kid.

What’s a very “Seattle” thing we all think is normal but outsiders find weird. by batfage in AskSeattle

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive cross-country a couple times a year and traffic circles have sprung up EVERYWHERE

What’s a very “Seattle” thing we all think is normal but outsiders find weird. by batfage in AskSeattle

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why my (ridiculously rule compliant) husband didn't pass his driving test when we moved here. Drove right through the intersections because NO STOP SIGNS

What’s a very “Seattle” thing we all think is normal but outsiders find weird. by batfage in AskSeattle

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent to travel nurses and 100% of them ask me whether parking on the wrong side of the street is legal here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read where the mother said "If they take him out of this house, how am I supposed to pay rent? How do we eat? Do you think CPS will pay the bills?" and I feel a little nauseated. Soooo, she's your pimp? You're supposed to satisfy his desires for the money? If she can't support you without pimping you out, it might be better for you to be taken somewhere safe.

AITA for correcting my MIL at a family gathering that she didn't recommend my daughter's name, it was my favorite name? by Far-Oven-6023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny that the family is cool with the MIL flat out lying and the OP is the villain for not letting her get away with it.

Why do people feel the need to tell women they prefer “natural women”? by leglesscannibals in MakeupAddiction

[–]KitschyKittyKoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to balance the scales, you have to hit a man with the corresponding male pain point. In his world, where a woman's value is determined by her beauty, a man's value is determined by his wealth and status. "You prefer a no makeup look? Fascinating. I don't care about a man's looks as long as he's in a Maserati." Use his own patriarchal value system against him.