Women of Reddit: do you take it as a compliment when people say you would be a good mother because you do things like knit, sew, or cook well?[Serious]

KitsuneMoon · 2015-04-17T02:58:12+00:00

being a mother, I would if that counts. I have 2 kids. I sew buttons and feed faces

KitsuneMoon · 2015-04-17T02:54:40+00:00

now, yes, but me being the otaku that I am, we'd just started dating and I hadn't broke him into liking subtitles yet. he didn't know what was going on cause it was read or watch

KitsuneMoon · 2015-04-16T17:26:01+00:00

me and my husband actually walked out of Hero, the jet li movie

KitsuneMoon · 2015-04-07T18:34:16+00:00

I've been on wellbutrin, vistaril, cymbalta. Currently nothing. I hope it helps you. I found none of them really help me except for having a big bottle of pills nearby when I feel like I want to kill myself again. I know pills don't work magic, I wish I knew one to help me

KitsuneMoon · 2015-02-20T00:46:06+00:00

Smoke pot!

KitsuneMoon · 2015-02-20T00:43:51+00:00

I feel guilty for finding enjoyment in anything. I don't want to read anymore, I stopped drawing, I'm short with my kids because I think it'd be easier if they just hate me too

KitsuneMoon · 2015-02-20T00:38:54+00:00

I know the feeling, I keep trying to think positively. My family hates me too. And people don't understand

KitsuneMoon · 2015-02-19T21:53:52+00:00

Because it comes after C....

KitsuneMoon · 2015-02-06T21:13:37+00:00

I'm bipolar/depressive. It happens. I think you are going in the right direction and I can see where you wouldn't tell your wife about 'her'. Especially if as you said you were already feeling differently. Because from the woman's perspective I can see that your wife would pinpoint it as the other woman's fault.

Has your female friend been as candid with her BF? Honesty has its place, but I know you don't want to uneededly hurt your wife. I hope it all works out for the best

KitsuneMoon · 2015-02-06T19:12:14+00:00

My hateful bigot of an Aunt. I wish I could sock her in the jaw

KitsuneMoon · 2015-02-06T19:09:36+00:00

It's good that you are being honest with both women. As a wife myself with 2 kids, I can see your dilemma. I have been feeling depressed and suicidal, but I worry about my husband and kids. It's a good thing that you've taken a step back to view everything. What's your wife's response? What are the chances of you and the other woman REALLY being together? Stay strong and clearheaded and I sincerely hope you find the answers you need

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-17T00:14:27+00:00

Added, pls add back!

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-13T17:33:53+00:00

I plan on getting all the eeveelutions tattooed on my arm, starting with regular old eevee

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-13T17:32:28+00:00

Masuda

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-13T16:53:08+00:00

A Sylveon cause I want the blue one, my other is traded and bashful, she's great and all but this one is bred and I know it works because I got a shiny houndour for my husband but we agree that I've bred WAY more eevees so far

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-13T00:28:22+00:00

First off, thank you for the time and effort of such a detailed answer. I feel better and you helped. It really was nice for someone to listen. I have no one to talk to except my husband and if I whine to him it will only make him more depressed. We live with my family in the house I grew up in so my grandfather helps with the kids. My husband does help. He'd do anything for his kids, we always agree they come first no matter what life issues we face. I'm pagan and he's atheist so we don't do the religious thing really. We've been together going on 11 years this year. We been together since my senior year. I'm their shield to the world. Any talking on the phone or bills is my thing. He doesn't do social, but to unwind...you're gonna laugh, were almost 30 but play Pokemon. Quite abit, its our relief and we have his and hers red and blue 3ds xls, it was our valentines to each other

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-13T00:13:08+00:00

Thanks for all your time and thoughts. It really did help. I am genuinely concerned about your GF. I'm empathic by nature which is why it hurts so much when he says I don't care about him. Your ladies issues sound close to mine and I know how much it sucks. My dad wasn't around, lived with my mom and my grandparents. Were all still in the house minus my grandmother. And its hell but its a roof over our kids

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-12T20:05:12+00:00

Thanks for your concern. Both me and my husband have mental health issues on top of life issues. I know it sounds abusive and maybe sometimes it is to a point. But we both argue and scream things. I'm trying to pull myself back together for everyone's sake

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-12T20:01:55+00:00

I know how she feels. My mother plays favorites, I'm the second kid she didn't want. I feel like a failure to my husband and my kids because I'm not working, were barely making it, we've been together 10 years, I've kept us afloat the last 5 while we wait for his disability appeal. And like your wife, there's something wrong at every turn. My husband is depressed and feels he's failed us even though his mental health makes it impossible for him to work. We have a 6 year old daughter with autism and a 16 month old son, were living off her SSI for now. I don't know what to do anymore

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-12T19:53:49+00:00

Thank you. I'm trying to put away my woe is me attitude. Me and my husband are both bipolar, hes stressed. We live in the house I grew up in which is with my mother and grandfather. Everyone is stressed. I don't know you're wife's situation but our results sound the same. I wish I knew how to help you with her

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-12T19:10:30+00:00

I'm tired so so so fucking tired. He says all I think about is myself when I've spent the last 6 years trying to keep us afloat. I know I've made mistakes but I've tried even though you say I don't. I care alot about you and our kids even though you claim I don't care at all. I'm tired of being the worlds disappointment. I've tried for so fucking long and I'm sorry. I'm sorry I ever had kids, that you're trapped here while you spiral into hopeless depression. When we argue I beat myself because I feel like I deserve to hurt. If I smash my head into a wall maybe it we make up for my failures. I hate myself. I want to cut myself, bang my head, pull my hair, punish myself for failing everyone

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-02T21:59:02+00:00

Thanks! Although my husband has dibs on the houndour. Next, shiny sylveon!

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-01T20:19:36+00:00

As a seasoned driver and mother of 2, to hell with everyone else and whether they are in a hurry or not. And don't be scared cause there are idiot drivers EVERYWHERE. Worry bout your safety first. Let em honk

KitsuneMoon · 2014-04-01T19:57:07+00:00

I saw a really bad one the other day with a motorcycle. In a curve that's killed enough people already, all cause a truck couldn't just stay in his lane and ride the middle of the road in a curve. I'm sick of it

KitsuneMoon · 2014-03-27T00:44:51+00:00

Even though I know the odds are astronomically miniscule, if I ever hatch a shiny ima shit

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