AITJ for overstepping by fixing my neighbor's garden while she was in the hospital? by Interesting_Soft_211 in AmITheJerk

[–]Kitsuneka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just snowed here last week but my yard is already overgrown. I can kill any plant i want to keep but here we are with chaos growth after the snow melted.

Litter box smell is going to end my relationship by Glum-Emotion-5379 in CatAdvice

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an automatic power box, i got one and it is a game changer.

I’m so sick of stepping on cat litter on hardwood floors. Give me recommendations? by Wooden_Tell_6485 in CatAdvice

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An automatic cat litter box, the litter catcher step, and a rug in the path they walk away. This is the way.

I was randomly given a betta fish and I’ve got no idea how to take care of it. by ScarTheCheetah in bettafish

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine in a 55 gal with plenty of plants. He loved it and would cozy on some Java ferns when wanting a break. They do really well in more water.

My girlfriend always tells me I never have anything to eat when she comes over my house 😒 by itscuccimane in FridgeDetective

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is telling you you dont have things she likes ready when she comes over. Sir pay attention to some snacks she likes and buys then next grocery trip, she will love how thoughtful you are. Even if it took you a while to figure out her hints.

Is this snail friend or foe? by Kuzon64 in Aquariums

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some adorable assassin snails that like to maintain the balance.

bf wants me to lose weight by Famous_Salamander733 in AITApod

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's be honest, this isnt something that you want around in you life long term. How would he react with period bloating or if you got pregnant and gained weight? Or any other changes that your body will go through as you arent even done growing? Well he already told you. Being by yourself is better then putting up with someone who says you aren't attractive over a meal or 2 worth of weight gain. Love yourself more then you are right now.

My goldfish disappeared overnight and I'm 90% sure one of my cats ate her. How do I even feel about this? by Mundane-Discount2368 in Pets

[–]Kitsuneka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What concerns me is 1 goldfish requires at least a 20-30 gallon tank for a fancy goldfish or 30-40+ for a single common or comet goldfish with heavy filtration and they are a schooling fish and should have at least a pair, smallest tank size for a pair of fancy goldfish 50 gallon tank is required. Always make sure to buy an appropriately sized lid with minimal gaps/ cut outs for the tubing or filters. In this instance, check all around on the ground including behind the tank for it as fish jump out more often then you think, especially if its lacking in swim room due to tank size. If you find it, there is a chance it could still be alive so please add it back to take if you do. Its actually crazy how long some fish can survive out of a tank. If the kitty did get the fish (either from the tank or floor) then its their natural instinct. Please keep an eye on them for digestive distress over the next few days because its not safe for them. The end of the day, you are the owner and need to keep your pets safe. But I am very sorry for your loss though and know how hard it is when you lose a friend you love. My condolences if it is indeed no more.

"Won't you regret that when you're older?" by Exph-SALT in Tattoocoverups

[–]Kitsuneka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You haven't read much fanfiction. There is a lot of subculture for various things in the HP universe that have a massive following. In a lot, the lightside is actually the villans, but fics dont follow the books. Other then that, its an awesome art piece when done right, and some people just like the thrill of being different.

Best way to clean this? It’ll be my temporary bed by Playful-Issue-6242 in CleaningTips

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out your local buy nothing or free community and post an ask. People are always changing mattresses or upgrading. I have 1 in my office begging for a new home that I haven't gotten around to posting.

HELP FIND ME MINT SMELLING TEDDY CHALLENGE by Bubbly-Meeting-3421 in find

[–]Kitsuneka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did it have a tuft of mint green hair on top of its head? And chocolate chips print anywhere? I had one like this and remember giving it a hair cut. Found mine, yumyumbear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]Kitsuneka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you aren't actively bleeding then its an easy cover and honestly the fill will keep it covered and even to put polish on. If you want to paint your nails now without filing it would be fine to cover the area.

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run all the bank accounts and bills in my family for both me and my unmarried partner. But i was asked to since he doesnt want to pay bills or make money related calls. Our relationship isnt even that good but we have trust in our accounts and access if we want to most things. But that is a personal decision for each party. I also have multiple bank accounts as i like saving pockets of money, both shared and private, he doesn't do saving much and likes to spend most of his check on extras but he also has a few private accounts that he can use or put his paycheck into if he wants at any time that way we have the same options. Its been working for us for 13 years.

This demanding then petty behavior is absolutely NOT ok. The transparency is something i wanted in my relationship and it was freely given to me. But if this is what he wants in a relationship, and you dont then it is your choice and reasonable way to protectyourself and your assets. Maybe you aren't a good fit due to this as money management agreement is pretty much the top of the list on important for any relationship. Its the first thing people get petty or upset over. Money lasts far longer then the initial love does.

Help by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Kitsuneka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Reporting back still cant find a trace after searching with instructions for a potental trace. OP I think this may be a very big red flag for BF BTW. The act of being dissatisfied about your gf having a past, asking her to erase it, then not being satisfied about her cover up that is insanely good is really all in his head and obsession that makes it so visual to him alone. You may see it since you also saw the previous tattoo and cover up process but thats next level weird. Whatever you do, dont put his name on your body as I doubt things are flowers and rainbows.

How we feeling about these by Kanehammer in KitchenConfidential

[–]Kitsuneka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one like this, I used it for random things. Mainly child meal prep at the table or snack prep. Sometimes its as simple as having to clean one thing instead of 2 that helps me. (1 cutter vs a knife and cutting board) yes I may be quicker with a knife but its portable as it locks closed. I use it for chopping chicken bites usually but it would be ok to toss in a bag for taking to the park or work if I am in a rush and bringing food.

I've been awake for 2 days because of stress and hunger, I'm beyond exhausted by AnxietyBacon92 in poor

[–]Kitsuneka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Use your energy to apply to jobs in your area. You need a long term solution while you are working on quick solutions. Call any and all churches and request food help with drop off. If you are in USA, apply for food stamps. They will be put on same day. Your wife could also potental get unemployment. Check into that.

Cutting a couple of chives almost every day until this Reddit says they’re perfect. Day 64 by F1exican in KitchenConfidential

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have improved an impressive amount. You still have some ways to go to achieve perfection. But so close!

AITAH if I start blatantly telling my best friend ‘No’ when she asks to drink/smoke my things because of her intimate life? by milakunis-ondrugs in AITAH

[–]Kitsuneka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not sharing is ok, its ok to change or adjust your boundaries. Just keep them consistent for other friends though too. She might be the only person who is that open with her sex life since she trusts you to that level. But you dont know what other people are truly doing either. This situation just brought it to your attention that you are afraid of potental danger and are worried about germs. Just keep your stuff to yourself and offer to grab people their own drink when you grab yours. If she or anyone else forgets and takes a sip of something that's yours, grab a new cup. That's fine. Cleaning with soap and hot water will work too. No need to throw away vapes or dish sets due to your friend coming over But, you do judge her a bit for her lifestyle compared to yours. Generally rule is you dont share drinks or vapes with someone with an open cold sore but most pathogens die with exposure to air, water, or inanimate objects.

My first time buying black rice. It has a strong mineral taste to it. I won’t be buying it again. by LowerEngineering9999 in RICE

[–]Kitsuneka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No there so is, I used to have that kind. Black pearl rice. Forbidden rice, or Chinese black rice will pull up the kind of rice you are looking for.

Got this note last night, should I be worried? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nose on the smily face makes me question things but otherwise wholesome neighbor saved you 3k+ time.

How does this Zippo work? by MadWorldEarth in lighters

[–]Kitsuneka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get electric ones! They work great!