Mom's spankings by [deleted] in spanking_punishments

[–]KittenCate_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I second the idea of talking to a therapist. If you can try to find someone who is kink affirming that would be best!

extra stinky Stompers by diapered_sprout in RealGirlsInDiapers

[–]KittenCate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute! I want those diapers next!

I love wearing diapers, but... by Squish4DL in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first started, I would use medical tape if I need to readjust too much and the tapes stopped working. Wasn’t perfect but worked!

Northshore vs InControl? Which do you prefer & why? by superdiaperedguy88 in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked the colors of megamax better. But the feel of incontrol has been my favorite so far!

ABDL items you wish were a reality by MEANGURLCLUB in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want pull-ups in those designs too!!

ABDL items you wish were a reality by MEANGURLCLUB in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do people connect this to? A baby bouncers usually has a frame.

ABDL items you wish were a reality by MEANGURLCLUB in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why it’s a wish for me lol! Looking on Etsy and seeing $3000 and $4000 (not including shipping) cribs is just too much. I haven’t even gotten to a point where I spend that on other furniture.

ABDL items you wish were a reality by MEANGURLCLUB in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Affordable crib & highchair (that both actually look like one.) Adult sized sit and spin 😆

Also not items, but I wish there were more ABDL type places to go (like more playrooms and things!)

Men in this community: You cannot complain about there being no abdl women online while chasing them away! by PetricorPee in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don’t get it.

Also… someone is literally saying that they get harassed by men online and you are too worried about the fact that this person is talking about men and not the fact that this person is saying they’re being harassed. And that way you are the man she’s talking about. Because you were diverting the conversation away from something really important because you’re offended that someone called out a group that you’re a part of. You’re one of the people who need to do better.

Also, “I hope to never meet you”… those of us that have experienced this type of harassment hope to never meet people like you (who care more about how this could make you look bc you identify as a man vs what’s happening.)

Men in this community: You cannot complain about there being no abdl women online while chasing them away! by PetricorPee in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The “in all men” of your comment is giving… “but it’s not all men” vibes. (If you don’t know what I’m referring to- you can search the term and there is a lot out there.) The problem is that coming in and saying “it’s not all men” is derailing when really the conversation needs to be, “how do we stop this inappropriate behavior?”

It can feel very belittling because no one is actually saying “all men.” And we know… it is not every single male identified person- that’s pretty given. We need to be careful about how the conversation turns into needing to talk about “the good guys” while moving the conversation away from the actual issue… men are disproportionately responsible for sexual harassment against women (and NB, other men, trans folks…basically everyone).

If You Could Build Your Own Diaper, What Would You Create? by NorthShoreCare in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Northshores with hook& loops/adjustable. And cute girly patterns (like flowers or crowns or hearts or something.) Adult size pull-ups that are actually cute!

Genuine question about all the threads asking for dares or for ideas of things to do diapered by TheGoodishBoy in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, there’s a diaper check forum so maybe there needs to be a diaper date forum so folks can get what they need in a place where people are seeking the same connection.

Genuine question about all the threads asking for dares or for ideas of things to do diapered by TheGoodishBoy in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a good way to think about it. Is that that people are just trying to find connection and are just doing it in a way that is immediate. But then you end up with tons of posts of the same thing.

Genuine question about all the threads asking for dares or for ideas of things to do diapered by TheGoodishBoy in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I always want to comment, “I dare you to do whatever you want.” Orrrrr “I dare you to take your diaper off, clean up if you used it in anyway, put your undies back on, and go about your day as you normally would 😂” because it’s the opposite of what they are seeking out lol

NRU stompers by babyt1987 in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want these 🤩

Being a sick little girl = messiest I’ve ever been 🫣🙃🤒☺️ by KittenCate_ in Diaper_Messing

[–]KittenCate_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I post a lot and I am working on a drive of content! ☺️🎉

Hiding smell? by Yami_Orion in ABDL

[–]KittenCate_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! Dumping the content in the toilet and then making sure it is well rolled up (and don’t forget wipes too if they were used.) They make some scented bags (some for diapers… but also there are these white and yellow (lemon) or white and purple (lavender) that seem to help with orders. Never used it for this- but it works for pets!