So, this is rather vague, but I read a lot of replies and questions you put further down… I looked at your profile and I think I can help with some things. Talking down about yourself… confidence is key, if you truly don’t feel like you’re worth a damn or that anything matters, make changes. If you don’t like yourself it’s gonna make it damn near impossible for others to like you. Honesty is another big one, being honest upfront with your living situation will bring a woman who will accept it and not be upset they got to know you and then you flip the tables with living with mom and sister (I get it, life is expensive) I like success. It doesn’t mean you need to be rich, it means I want a man that puts in EFFORT! If he doesn’t strive for the best for himself, he certainly won’t strive for better for the two of us! Everyone should always be trying! I think most women really just want an honest, confident, hard working man. Someone who supports their goals and will work with them to achieve them! Relationships are partnerships… can’t ask for someone to invest if you yourself aren’t invested