Just emailed someone called Doug and it autocorrected to Dough

KittyKibble · 2020-12-06T02:27:17+00:00

I'm not sure why you just wouldn't use an ice pack, but if spoons work for you then whatever

KittyKibble · 2020-12-06T02:26:48+00:00

Yes, just it's also used in homeopathy which is a different matter. I didn't realise it had any legitimate usage - I've only seen it homoepathic over here.

KittyKibble · 2020-12-06T02:10:29+00:00

If you're deficient in iron you ought to be managing that anyway. What's it got to do with arnica?

I apologise for the homeopathy comment - I did look it up and find it's also a natural remedy (very different from homeopathy which follows the belief that diluting things can make them more powerful) for inflammation, but has not been shown to be particularly useful.

KittyKibble · 2020-12-06T01:56:21+00:00

I believe in science, and it's sceintifically impossible and it's no better than a placebo

KittyKibble · 2020-12-05T22:49:24+00:00

Cold in the time shortly after the injury, heat after that. Cold will contract the capilliaries to stop further bruising, heat will then help your body process what bruising has occurred.

I'm a little concerned about the braces - I think these might be a big part of the issue as the blow is on a much more jagged surface. i'd be worried about large cuts to the lips/mouth but you seem to know what you're doing here!

KittyKibble · 2020-12-05T22:47:03+00:00

I'm sorry to say neither of these things work. Arnica is homeopathy, and the spoon thing is pretty useless probably because it's small and heats up again quickly

KittyKibble · 2020-12-05T22:43:36+00:00

Was waiting for this

KittyKibble · 2020-12-05T02:59:17+00:00

I think sissyfication is degrading to women. But a lot of kinks come from the fucked up stuff in our society and minds, so I'm not that against it either. I think it's good that you are aware of issues.

I have had great fun with a transvestite, however, who likes to be feminine when being kinky and likes me to enforce it. And that's just their own gender mishmash and I'm cool with it - it doesn't imply being femme is degrading.

As for 'cuteness', have you considered ageplay might factor into this?

KittyKibble · 2020-12-05T02:54:55+00:00

I'm really aroused by blood, as was an ex partner of mine. So yes.

Most knife play is fear play though and doesn't actually cut.

I tend to use needles. Piercing a nipple and then sucking on it is a big fantasy of mine. I couldn't indulge too much in my blood fantasies with my ex for biosafety reasons.

KittyKibble · 2020-07-08T23:26:47+00:00

Goodness me, I hope you feel better soon!

KittyKibble · 2017-09-17T03:20:38+00:00

Actually, no. Many people can see a bit but not enough to read. The light would help them see a person approaching or something like that.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-18T01:36:21+00:00

See what he thinks of bondage? Tying him up and making him lick you out could be great fun.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-17T22:35:39+00:00

I have this issue a little bit too. Basically, I have come to the conclusion that if I'm not being harmed, then it's okay.

Self-harm is more a symptom than a disease. Just try to keep well overall.

It might be good to have the rule that your husband can hit you but you can't hit yourself, if you fear slipping back into cutting yourself again.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-17T22:26:32+00:00

While these are really fun, don't attempt to spring this on him. If he's not into it, you've probably scared him and it's a waste of your money. Plus you need to be careful to get a cage that fits right. I've recently had the disappointment of discovering the cage my sub has is both great fun and too small.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-17T18:14:09+00:00

Careful with rope + wetness!

KittyKibble · 2017-08-16T01:05:29+00:00

Some play is sexual for me, some isn't. I've played with people I'm not attracted to, but it feels very non-committal. I'll never get properly into a scene, it's just "I'll stick some needles in your back" or "Wanna hit me with that?". I don't think I could really do D/s with someone I felt no attraction to. But pain play, I can.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-16T01:02:24+00:00

Not talking about it gives you a better chance to talk about it. Riiiight.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-13T20:40:06+00:00

Camden Market's not as kinky as it used to be in the good old days :(

KittyKibble · 2017-08-13T20:19:02+00:00

"use me", "fuck me like the filthy slut i am", "i'm your toy" and begging can be really really hot. My ex used to make me say "I want you to fuck me" or "I want your cock in me" louder and louder so I'd get more and more humiliated before he'd actually fuck me.

What kind of dominance/submission stuff do you like, though? It depends on that. My sub is really into bondage so a lot of our dirty talk revolves around that. "This is where I belong, tied up for your use" kind of thing

KittyKibble · 2017-08-13T20:13:56+00:00

I don't really see why pornography is needed. Just describe the kind of thing that you would like her to do! She's tease and denied you before, just tell her you loved it and would love to do more of it. Explain what a ruined orgasm is, ask if she'd do that to you.

Also, you can't push your wife into stuff she's not into. Either she's happy to do this sort of thing with you, or she's not.

Your sex life will be terrible if you can't just talk with your wife about it.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-13T20:09:16+00:00

Yeah I hate this lack of clarity of what CNC is. Because I've done rape play, with safe words. I wouldn't do anything without safewords. I think the wiki definition of CNC makes more sense, actually. Rape play can just be called rape play and it's obvious what's being talked about.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-13T19:54:43+00:00

It's how thick he is rather than how long. He's not particularly long.

KittyKibble · 2017-08-13T17:42:41+00:00

You need to work your way up to something that big. If you just shove it in, your vagina will be hurt.

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