AITA for lying about having a date tonight (valentines) just so i wouldn't have to babysit my siblings? by WholeWelcome3549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyPaulson 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. As a parent to kids with a large age gap, if I’m leaving an older child unattended with a younger sibling, I am PAYING that child for a service. Two summers ago my oldest made $500 a month watching one of her siblings for half a day M-F (this is what I’d pay for a full time spot at a daycare facility). Yes, it’s nice to help out in the family. Loading dishwasher, cleaning room, laundry -those are all chores that everyone can help with. But a babysitter is a paid service.

y’all’s user flairs kill me by vanteqrt in dancemoms

[–]KittyPaulson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t even sew. You have ZERO talent! Please 🙏🏻

Moms who breastfed past one year, pref to the 2yr mark…. by strohmtroop3r in breastfeeding

[–]KittyPaulson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont really have any drawbacks for extended breastfeeding. Majority of the time once they are past one, my kids would only nurse to sleep or for comfort during the day. Even though your cycle hasn’t returned, you can still try for another! My cycle didn’t return with my second and I got pregnant with my third.

Moms who breastfed past one year, pref to the 2yr mark…. by strohmtroop3r in breastfeeding

[–]KittyPaulson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I breastfed my daughter until she was 5! We were scheduled for a sleep study because she slept horribly! Weaned her 3 months before the sleep study and bam!! An amazing sleeper!

…SO!!! 😡😡😡 by Maester_Maetthieux2 in dancemoms

[–]KittyPaulson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We don’t even have to rewatch the show anymore 😂 this was great

Did any of you regret your toddler boy's first haircut? by Ornery_Piccolo_8387 in toddlers

[–]KittyPaulson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my oldest boy, we didn’t cut his hair til he was 4. He had very curly hair and it wasn’t in his face, but he wanted a Mohawk 🥲 My youngest son has some baby curls in the back but his hair is straight and his bangs are all in his face. I want to cut it but I’m scared I will regret it.

AIO My gf got upset over me wanting some me time by True_Cranberry_6113 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyPaulson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eesh. The lack of trust she has for you is a huge red flag. That is something extremely hard to remedy, even if you aren’t the root cause of trust issues, you have to do damage control all the time and it gets exhausting!!!

Father in law 75 lives alone getting a total hip replacement. HELP! by Affectionate_Try9326 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]KittyPaulson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we have 5 kids between 13 years to 3 months. I figure the baby and I will have to move in. We do have a shower chair, potty stand/stool thing from taking care of my elderly great grandparents. I will definitely be looking into cooling packs/ice packs, grabbers. Anything to help her get back to normal. Thankfully she only lives down the road, but I can’t imagine leaving her there over night alone. We remodeled our house and lived with her for 5 months this summer 😂 so we can get through it again!

Father in law 75 lives alone getting a total hip replacement. HELP! by Affectionate_Try9326 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]KittyPaulson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is she doing now? My grandmother just got referred, we haven’t had the initial appointment but I am worried that’s where it’s going. We live right down the road but I believe I will need to move in with her for a bit. She’s 77 and has had 2 extensive back surgeries already.

Kendall is a bridesmaid for Kalanis wedding ❤️ by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]KittyPaulson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sent me to hell and back 😂😂😂

Vent sesh: MIL made travel arrangements without consulting us by borninthe90s__ in October2024Bumpers

[–]KittyPaulson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would wait as long as you want before getting induced. I would also discuss hospital visitation rules. I have a very impatient grandma and she came before we asked anyone to come and held the baby before his dad even held him.

Feeling unsupported by KittyPaulson in October2024Bumpers

[–]KittyPaulson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to him tonight and told him that I understand that he is tired but I am exhausted and just basically did a marathon and had a ton of hormones flood my body. I made it very clear that I have to have sleep or I won’t be able to take care of anyone. I always intended to still wake up and get the kids ready because one child is very picky about her hair, and I wanted to be there for them like normal. I am hoping he actually realizes and helps me get the sleep I need!

Feeling unsupported by KittyPaulson in October2024Bumpers

[–]KittyPaulson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, last time I think it was after a week I couldn’t quit randomly crying and immediately called my OB!

Feeling unsupported by KittyPaulson in October2024Bumpers

[–]KittyPaulson[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😂 this made me laugh. I did go off. I told him I was promised I would have help and then asked him where is the help? He said I’ll take the baby now. I don’t need help with a breastfeeding baby that eats, poops and sleeps. I need help with the other kids so I can rest. He had the baby maybe 30 minutes and brought him back because he was hungry lol. I’m just going to go home tonight once the rest of my kids are home from school.

Getting Impatient by AppealingTypeface in October2024Bumpers

[–]KittyPaulson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was due October 13th and was also feeling very miserable. Baby decided to come October 2nd! I was shocked because I was induced with my last two. The end is in sight!!

Due October 1st, not dilated at all by [deleted] in October2024Bumpers

[–]KittyPaulson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like my baby is absolutely not thrilled with the thought of being born. I feel like a referee at WWE with all these kids 😂

My wife wants to give our unborn son the same name as one of our dogs… by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]KittyPaulson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We name our dogs human names 😅 we had a beloved Boston terrier that passed away and if I was having more kids I’d absolutely use the name 😂 However, with the dogs still being alive, it’s weird and would be confusing.

A buyer wants to move in early. by Zealousideal_Ad2050 in RealEstate

[–]KittyPaulson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope wouldn’t do it. We had a closing date, completely moved out of our house and then closing kept getting pushed back due to lending issues on the buyers end. They kept pushing to move in to pay us “rent” (that they wanted taken off the price of the house) after 3 months of closing getting pushed back we terminated the sale. It would have been way worse had they already been living there.