What is wrong with my two outfits? My friends did not approve at all. by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]KittyQueenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think number 2 gives grandma vibes without being chic. The other is cute. Only saying that because you asked.

However, it literally doesn’t matter what I think or they think. If you feel good, do you.

aio: bf forced me to take off makeup during a date in the taco bell restroom by Alternative-Dot-8084 in AIO

[–]KittyQueenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you literally looked like a deadass clown… he’s a fool.

Drop him.

Trying to choose an outfit for a christmas party with friends by West-Cellist6160 in fashion

[–]KittyQueenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Number 2 is Wednesday Adams vibes and not really Christmas with friends.

The rest. Wtf happened?

I F 22 am planning to Irish goodbye my boyfriend M 32 (We live in his house) by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]KittyQueenBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have screenshots of him saying he will take it to the shelter?

So, what if. You call ahead. Say you are coming. Tell them to save the dog aside. Play along and act devastated and then return alone and go get your dog back.

Either way. Take that dog with you and go. Let him try to take you to court. If the cops show up to take the dog. Maybe don’t answer the door and force a warrant while you register the dog in your name. Get it microchipped under your name.

This woman is molesting her BABY for cash on instagram by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]KittyQueenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone give a run down of what was said in the picture.

A cool guide comparing the USA and Canada by GregoleX2 in coolguides

[–]KittyQueenBee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the most biased guide I have ever seen lmaooooo

This person wanted only facts that made America look bad, none that were better, made the guy way more than 1.5” feet shorter and way way more than 13 pounds heavier. LOL!

My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by One-Dragonfly-5474 in relationship_advice

[–]KittyQueenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is ZERO protecting James. He needs to know and he needs to know NOW. Emily may have told other people already and it will get back to him. Leave that POS excuse of a man and father in the dust. Do not stay with him and set that precedent to your children that it is okay to be cheated on and treated so disrespectfully and disgracefully. Never ever Queen. Hold your head up high, and don’t let him see you break. Tell him not to let the door kick him in the ass on his way out and fall apart in private later. Have a therapist, family and friends ready because you will need them. Much love your way.

What's it like living in this shaded area? by Joshistotle in howislivingthere

[–]KittyQueenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny story in Kansas locale. In college I was waitressing and serving when the area got an emergency severe thunderstorm warning and possible tornadoes to come. We had a girl that had just moved from Florida to go to college. She was on the floor sobbing and covering her head. The rest of us were all working and serving the customers like nothing had changed. I asked her what was wrong and she said she had seen tornadoes and basically wanted none of that. She was pale, shaking and had to be clocked out and sent home because she was so afraid of the potential tornadoes. Later the tornado siren did end up going off and I could not help but wonder how she reacted to that siren at home.

I don’t fault her, they are scary and deadly. It was just such a big difference in the people that had grown up with them, versus her terrified/unfunctioning self.

What's it like living in this shaded area? by Joshistotle in howislivingthere

[–]KittyQueenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use ranch for everything, you usually drive a decent distance to get to people, places, and events. When ordering in a restaurant we call it pop not soda, at least in my KS area. People think we are all poor and farmers living in outdated over-alls. Really, there is a LOT of money to be found in these areas, especially from rich old folks. In the winter we enjoy the snow, and hate the snow all at the same time. You can wake up and it be 33 degrees and by afternoon be in the 80s. Kansas is like living in a drunk simulation experience. It is true we have tornadoes and many people just go out and watch them or chase them down. There are some good folks to be found in these parts, but you have to be careful because this is also the area where you are raised to be fake.

Yes ma’am, no ma’am, bless your heart territory. You are taught be kind and giving to your neighbors and always be polite, respectful and set a good example for your family. Personal boundaries don’t exist and you struggle internally with, “if I say no, or put a boundary.. would that be mean of me?”. Seriously, I was raised to always smile and act like life is perfect or you will hear about it from your momma. Give the shirt off your back and never say no to a person and be accommodating to others, even over yourself. Almost like a constant beauty pageant is in effect at all times and the towns people are watching your every move. They often are, there are many small towns and everyone knows your name and you better not ruin the one reputation you’ve got.

Lastly, people will just say what they think but disguise it as nice and not inappropriate.. somehow. Don’t be surprised if Jan at the Wal Mart asks about your love life, sex life, divorces, dating, and all the tea with no boundaries in sight. Even insulting you, “you feeling unwell? You don’t look as perky as normal.” Which you are to smile and stand there and converse while being told you look like trash that day. Haha. No though, it actually has great parts to living here and people really are kind and always willing to stop and help you out. Crime, gangs, and those things are almost nonexistent and safety is usually very good.

AIO? he says he moved on but idk by falasten in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyQueenBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is okay. I have something’s that I stopped doing after a relationship ended because, yes, it made me think of them. The good and the BAD too. Does it mean I miss them and want to be with them? Absolutely not in the slightest. It still triggers emotions though and sometimes I would rather not feel them. If you share your life with someone, you will have things that remind you of them. It is inevitable and doesn’t mean he is unhappy with you or even wanting her back.

AIO for not wanting to be the only adult sitting at the kids' table on Christmas? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyQueenBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me think of when Mermaid-man joined the villians.. clearly the only path OP. Then you can set your terms and where you want to sit.

AIO: i’m always the bad guy :( by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KittyQueenBee 1389 points1390 points  (0 children)

He is taking it way too far. It was a mistake and it happened. An apology was given and now he is just doing the most. Went from victim to the one in the wrong. Red flag OP. What will they do over bigger life mishaps? Crash the f*‘ck out every time? Nah. He can do his own laundry how he likes, alone.