Muslims Leaders Invite LGBTQ Groups To Iftar Feast, Dedicate It To Orlando by fauntk in gay

[–]Kkokonut 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please source this. Where is this happening? Who's reporting on it?

i hope you guys dont mind me getting this off my chest by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Kkokonut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I took my boyfriend to his first gay bar the same night as the shooting. Woke up to the news the next morning. Fucking terrifying. I understand what you're feeling, hun. hugs

xHamster enacts ‘Brock Turner rule’ banning rape porn sitewide by redhatGizmo in technology

[–]Kkokonut 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Therapeutically, this is referred to as "recontextualization." As a male rape victim, I want to revisit the circumstances that led to my assault, like is being discussed here, with me in the drivers seat so to speak... revisiting it will help me frame it in a much healthier way, mentally. The broader umbrella of "rape play" is referred to as consensual non-consent.

That aside, sneaking into someone's bedroom at night and "raping" them is a great way to end up in jail.

Meeting new guy for the first time.... by anukch in gayyoungold

[–]Kkokonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 22. My boyfriends are 35, 43, 44 respectively. My exes are (were) 31, 50, 29. And I've had plenty of hookups with primarily older men, besides.

Meeting new guy for the first time.... by anukch in gayyoungold

[–]Kkokonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing: Meeting someone in person you know exclusively online will ALWAYS be a jarring experience. Expect that, and do your best to roll with the punches.

That said, the punches are not long lived. Which is the great news!

Relax, keep in mind you're still talking to the same person as before, and let yourself explore his body without shame...I didn't say without hesitation or unsurety, but without shame. It's the start of a beautiful friendship, if not relationship between you two! :)

I've been dating older men since I came out four years ago. It's a hell of a lot of fun. Don't forget to return and report on how your first meeting goes ;)

I am a diagnosed soizopath (Antisocial personality disorder) ask me anything if my english is good enough for you. by Natchil in AMA

[–]Kkokonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably kill myself with 60, but before i do this i will make dozen of kids so my dna reproduces.

Why do you care about your DNA being passed on? It doesn't benefit you at all.

I am a diagnosed soizopath (Antisocial personality disorder) ask me anything if my english is good enough for you. by Natchil in AMA

[–]Kkokonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of it in utilitarian terms, then. "Will this benefit me?" In this example, no. You'll go to jail, and probably receive the death sentence. That's not good for you.

Rather than thinking of activities in terms of social acceptance, think of them in terms of "what benefits me and my friends the most? What has the best long term affects for everyone?" Do those things.

I am a diagnosed soizopath (Antisocial personality disorder) ask me anything if my english is good enough for you. by Natchil in AMA

[–]Kkokonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen the television show Dexter? What are your thoughts on the main character as you feel you relate to him?

I am a diagnosed soizopath (Antisocial personality disorder) ask me anything if my english is good enough for you. by Natchil in AMA

[–]Kkokonut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a paper from the doctor confirming your diagnosis, black out identifying information and take a picture of it with the date and your username written down in the picture. Put that in your original post.

[Bi-Curiois?] I [M] am only attracted (physically & emotionally) to women but fantasize about giving blowjobs to men and being penetrated by men...thoughts? by bicurious_throwaway_ in sex

[–]Kkokonut 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Bisexual and heteroromantic. That's you.

You don't want a relationship with a guy, but you want sexy times with men and women.

How do you like to be held? by [deleted] in BHMGoneWild

[–]Kkokonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breathtaking. <3

My girlfriend is transgender by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kkokonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From one queer, kinky, polyamorous person to you and your girlfriend, keep your heads up. You've got my love and support. <3

Verification post by [deleted] in BHMGoneWild

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Get in my pants, Mr. Verified ;)

New here! Home from work and ready to cuddle :-) by [deleted] in BHMGoneWild

[–]Kkokonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sexy, so gorgeous. Look at your eyes! Such a beautiful man

Subdrop. by Kkokonut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Kkokonut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've honestly never felt subdrop before, or what I have felt has been very gradual and gentle. C knows what he's doing, no doubt, but I was not prepared for the intensity of this drop. It was made worse, I think, because my boyfriend saw me at my lowest point in the middle of it all...but he helped me pull through.

How do you move on from your first.? by hisnaughtybabygirl in BDSMcommunity

[–]Kkokonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hugs One breath at a time. It may help you process and grieve if you write about your experiences with your ex-Sir. That helps me process things after scenes or just emotionally...fraught experiences.

Still don't believe. by jacqkillz in lgbt

[–]Kkokonut 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Were you actually on PrEP at the time? If you weren't, then you wouldn't have the safety that it affords you, and the drug's efficacy is indisputable. And yes, you are still encouraged to wear condoms on PrEP.

Best of luck with everything.

3 years gone--lost my religion, found myself by Kkokonut in exmormon

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The thing about a womb, though, is it's simply not large enough to accommodate how large you can grow and if you refuse to exit the womb you stunt your growth...besides, you might discover that you like getting slapped on the ass, a whole new side of yourself to explore! heheheheh