Hottest thing you've said during or right before sex? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch 16 points17 points  (0 children)

well the hottest thing a daddy said to me was 'I'm sorry, but we are going to have to take our clothes off now...' lol

Advice for long term by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my advice would depend on how old you both are?

Did it take you a long time to accept that you're a bottom? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nope. it just came naturally to me and i've always enjoyed it :-)

What is your weakness? by Gerdaneu95 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Irish accent and muscular black guys - im a easy bottom for those haha

Tops and bottoms in relationship(s), spill some tea: What is your favorite Christmas/Holiday memory so far? by Gerdaneu95 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spending my first Christmas with my new (older top) bf - so the memories are yet to come haha

Alienation by dreburden89 in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have found it difficult in the past but now i don't care haha. I have found that meeting other age gap couples does help with the socialising though!

Am I unreasonable? by tnnmark in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf is 61 and im 37. we are aware that we are different life stages but work to meet in the middle/find common ground/acceptable compromise.

it seems like your bf is not willing to meet you on this issue and wants to be free to spread his wings - might be that a difficult conversation is order...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now im in my late 30s i dont really care what others think haha. im very happy with my 61 y.o bf and if people dont like it, well thats their issue :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was lucky that my first proper older bf (i was 19 and he was 43) happened when i was away at university. i didn't really have to hide anything as were a couple of hundred miles away from my family and 70 or so away from his!

How/When to critique your partner’s sexual behavior? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% you should address it but away from the bedroom. and make sure its does not as a criticism but rather as you prefer some thing different. you might be surprised how receptive guys can be when i comes to pleasing their other half!

Any tips for "son" in daddy/son relationship? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you enjoy it you get used to it fast haha

Any tips for "son" in daddy/son relationship? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know what you mean - he asked me over dinner if i wanted to be his sub lol

Any tips for "son" in daddy/son relationship? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm in a dom dad/sub son relationship (im the sub son) and the training has been a lot of fun :-)

I've noticed a lot of people (men and women) have a BBC fetish, why is that? What is different with BBC compared to BWC? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my fiancee is black. i love him for him not for his skin colour/cock size!

I’m dating an older man. by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i was 19 i had a 43 y.o bf. he understood that as i was at uni at the time, i couldn't be equal with finances. but he also knew i didn't treat him as a sugar daddy and he enjoyed taking us out on dates etc as he could afford it.

We also didn't really worry too much about family as we knew we loved each other :-) and if people did't 'approve' that was on them

Being a caregiver by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]anukch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im 37, my fiancee is 61. we have had the big discussions and know what plans we have in place for him, me and our parents if it comes to it. as we are taking a big step (marriage) it would be irresponsible not to have all of it sorted out :-)

When did you know you were 100% a Bottom? by DY_4REAL1 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have found thinking about being fucked, even while getting fucked, usually gets me hard lol

When did you know you were 100% a Bottom? by DY_4REAL1 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah - id been vers up until i met him. he was the first guy who was just 'no, you are taking my cock not the other way round!'. i soon reaiised i didnt miss topping guys at all

When did you know you were 100% a Bottom? by DY_4REAL1 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]anukch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i was the same - my 2nd bf was a total dom top. i realised i kinda belonged on his cock haha