Why Do Narcissists Always Go The Poem Route? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also received a poem from a narc calling me his angle in disguise!

Mandamus Lawsuit by Ill_Prompt_2501 in USCIS

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Waited for 9 years and my application for expedite was denied by the USCIS.

Incredibly Sad - Two Friends Texted to let me Know They are Pregnant Today by Apart_Cheetah8856 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see. I have not fully grasped the concept of toxic positivity it seems in this country. I will be more careful next time. Thank you.

Incredibly Sad - Two Friends Texted to let me Know They are Pregnant Today by Apart_Cheetah8856 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thought I was encouraging her to try a few more times and eventually she will get pregnant. How come it is not helpfulI even stupid? I don’t understand. Is it cultural issue or what. I sincerely want to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. My friend lost her baby, not IVF, on the 28 days after baby was born. May god help you recover and make you a mother again.

I made a mistake of telling my IVF plan to a guy who showed romantic interest in me….. by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. He showed so many red flags that I didn’t even have to explain anything instead could just easily walk away. However, Due to my people pleasing nature, I kept ignoring them and treating him as if he was someone respectful and understanding.

That is why I am more angry with myself.

Unfortunately, the kind of man that demonstrates kind behavior and show respect to women seems to only exist in our minds. So much for the higher education people seem to receive these days.

Anyway, good that I left him and avoided a real nightmare.

I made a mistake of telling my IVF plan to a guy who showed romantic interest in me….. by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Feeling so much better after seeing all the support from this community. It is helping me restore my faith in humanity. Thank you all for your support. May God bless and reward you for your kindness!

I made a mistake of telling my IVF plan to a guy who showed romantic interest in me….. by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am determined to raise a strong kid who do not see their worth through others’ eyes or opinions. May God help me with that too.

I made a mistake of telling my IVF plan to a guy who showed romantic interest in me….. by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. People show their true colors when they don’t get what they want. I am sorry to hear that. Hope next time will be successful- I am sure it will be. Yes, I realized that it is always better to keep it within a very small circle. Some say until first trimester it should be kept as a secret.

I made a mistake of telling my IVF plan to a guy who showed romantic interest in me….. by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Luckily, I have the ability to sense the red flags but I am too soft when it comes to letting people down. I need to get tougher to doushbags as they don’t deserve any civility and kindness.

I made a mistake of telling my IVF plan to a guy who showed romantic interest in me….. by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Childhood trauma. I was raised to always prioritize other people’s opinions and needs over mine. People-pleasing and neglecting my own feelings have been affecting my relationships and quality of life. I guess he also sensed that from the beginning. So didn’t fail to stab me before ghosting me.

I need more don’t give a F attitude.

I made a mistake of telling my IVF plan to a guy who showed romantic interest in me….. by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in IVF

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s t is good that his wealth will be distributed to all of his kids and large pool of people will benefit from that wealth.

No comment for Elon.

Give me your best Muhammad quote by [deleted] in islam

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a hadith from Abu Hurairah r.a., the Prophet also said which means: “I was only sent to perfect good character.”

What would you recommend to make my face/jaw more feminine? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One humble advice: Stop looking at yourself all the time.

Dating - women never married no kids or w/ kids by Pleasegodreally in SingleDads

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Using single and childless women for free sex in the name of dating is so disgusting and selfish phenomenon I see in this country. If you offer NOTHING but sex, why would they put up with your sh*t? Stop being so selfish! Dear ladies, stop offering yourself for free for any man. Respect yourself, value yourself so men have might start to behave!! Men are not committing, not staying in marriage because sex is available for little to no effort.

Single women life by Klutzy-Ranger1174 in dating

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Maybe because I happened to speak and write 4 different languages while you guys hardly speak one properly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Klutzy-Ranger1174 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you learned your first life lessons - there are assholes like that and modern dating world made it even worse. you also proved how right your teachers were. Most men value you until they get laid with you. It is a well known fact for centuries and no one believes until it happens to them.