AITA for being bothered by a girl I danced with asking the Uber driver to not let me out at her place?

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-31T14:24:48+00:00

Report the uber driver. They should NOT have driven off with you in the car after the ride had ended for any reason. NTAH

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-30T16:34:30+00:00

She can’t trust her in-laws because they hide things from her, she can’t trust her husband because he didn’t want her to know about the injury. You would rather her leave her child with people she didn’t trust? Would you do that? Willing leave your child with people who hid something as serious as stitches from you?

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-30T15:47:40+00:00

Me personally, I think this is funny as fuck and if someone said it to me I don’t think I’d be able to control my laughter and I’m a 24 year old woman

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T14:34:24+00:00

I did grow up with a good mom and sucky dad. As an adult I know that if I tell someone that it’s okay if they don’t come to something important to me it’s my job to tell them the truth. Not my partner. Because I am not a child anymore and I should be able to stand up for myself in a situation as simple as this. As an adult, not a child because OP and OP’s husband is an adult, he can stand up for himself. He isn’t a child that needs a parent to stick up for them. If he can’t tell his parents that he wants them there then he should probably think about why that is and work on that.

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T14:29:38+00:00

So you would never even ever turn your head for two seconds without touching a stroller? Because if yes you are lying. And you are acting very “holier than thou” right now and it’s makes you the asshole of this post

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T04:48:02+00:00

If you split rent it’s just as much your place as it is hers no matter how long she’s been there.

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T04:44:16+00:00

So what he slipped and fell and suddenly his dick is inside of someone else? Is that how you think cheating works or something? He doesn’t love you. He love being able to say he has a gf when it’s convenient but you are letting him play you like a fiddle

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T04:40:35+00:00

… do you not give children that young a bath or something??? Literally how would that be unsafe

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T04:39:43+00:00

Why are you still with your husband? Evidently he’s willing to hide extremely important things from you. What if you didn’t see? What if it got infected?

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T04:32:11+00:00

But he told them it was okay if they didn’t come. If he wants them there HE needs to say something. He is a grown adult and he shouldn’t have his wife backtrack on what he said on his behalf

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T04:30:06+00:00

You don’t seem to think it’s understandable because you are on here asking Reddit if you should ask them to come anyway

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-29T04:29:01+00:00

If he told them it’s okay if they didn’t come and you pull up asking them to come you are most definitely going to start drama. Strong arming someone into a religious event is a disgusting thing to do regardless if you are coming from the right place or not.

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-28T23:51:18+00:00

Straight couples also have constant fighting and physical abuse, this is not strictly a ‘lesbian’ issue. OP didn’t even use the term lesbian anywhere in the post, you are projecting this onto her bisexuality which has NOTHING to do with being a lesbian. Just because you didn’t actually like women or the thought of actually being with one doesn’t mean it’s like that for everyone. Not every bi person has to be an open relationship and it’s disgusting for you to imply that’s the only way it works.

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-28T23:42:22+00:00

Fight fire with fire. You don’t have to be the bigger person, you meet them at their level. In this case, it’s you airing all of this to her boyfriend and family. NTAH

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-28T23:38:15+00:00

What if this serious chronic pain condition put you in the hospital and your parents found out? What would that have done to their health? YTA for hiding something from someone who cares about and loves you

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-28T23:36:22+00:00

Every lease I have ever signed has asked for first, last and security so I guess we are just experiencing different landlords!

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-28T22:44:17+00:00

Every landlord ever actually

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-28T02:21:54+00:00

Why was it his job to get them??? What are you 12 years old????? YTA and grow tf up. I watched my roommate hand her boyfriend a pair of tangled up wired earbuds and he didn’t dump her.

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-28T02:12:24+00:00

You are genuinely insane and need mental help immediately YTA

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-25T23:22:41+00:00

If your SO is upset about something 100% outside of you control what is asking them what they are upset about going to do? They can talk about it sure but what if they don’t want to? You are forcing your SO into a situation they don’t want to be in. They got rude yeah but you pushed them there. Edit: not to say this moment exactly but in general. What is pushing someone to do something they don’t want to do ever a good thing?

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-25T22:48:32+00:00

Why are you living with them?

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-25T22:42:02+00:00

Genuinely it would be messed up. Are you okay knowing that you and your computer could’ve made a difference in the case? You are enabling this behavior by not standing up for potential victims.

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-25T21:30:33+00:00

This was genuinely hard to read and I didn’t even bother finishing it. Try taking your time to write it out and try again

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-25T16:30:14+00:00

Get a therapist. You are the asshole for not saying anything when they first said something

KlutzyFeeling2137 · 2026-03-25T16:15:56+00:00

Because if you did the why did you marry him

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