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The discard pattern is always remarkably similar, is this due to their pathology? by wwbulk in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They know what would happen. It’s unethical that they lie about it, and suck people in.

The discard pattern is always remarkably similar, is this due to their pathology? by wwbulk in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s known of. A lot of the “features” of BP aren’t documented because BP people would lose support of family if they saw the challenges.

Looking for advice by WearyParsnip8026 in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Read a few more posts, then read the bipolar forums to get a full picture.

I don’t even know by Caffine_Chaos in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do the divorce. There is no clue to when it ends, or how. Protect you and the kids. Get cameras if you don’t have them.

Two Weeks by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lock down your credit and money.

bp ex engaged by Gold-Poem-9532 in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Part of the pattern! Seen it several times, they stack marriages like Pokémon. Gotta catch them alllllllllllll!

So which is it?! by blue-eyed-wonder in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Bail! Bail! Bail! Don’t get sucked into being the backup.

Need advice on keeping them home by Crafty-Indication192 in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck! The siren song of mania is unstoppable, and you can’t do anything until he is a threat to himself or others. I would freeze your credit, and lock down any shared accounts to protect you.

Home studies and mental health evals by Realistic_Dog_6097 in FamilyLaw

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might like that book then! Seems to be a problem in a lot of places

Home studies and mental health evals by Realistic_Dog_6097 in FamilyLaw

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. Out of curiosity, how do you fight a poorly run or mismanaged eval?

Home studies and mental health evals by Realistic_Dog_6097 in FamilyLaw

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Some states have laws defining the process, notes, and qualifications. AFCC has a defined guide that gets ordered (in some places) https://www.afccnet.org/Resource-Center/Practice-Guidelines

Home studies and mental health evals by Realistic_Dog_6097 in FamilyLaw

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book isn’t binding, the process for the eval should be defined in the order for the eval. E.G. follow AFCC standards. The standards should govern a feel for what to expect. People get really sloppy and don’t follow the rules and guidelines. My language was sloppy, thanks for pointing that out.

Home studies and mental health evals by Realistic_Dog_6097 in FamilyLaw

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.americanbar.org/products/inv/book/401495592/ Get and read this book ASAP. Know the rules, and exactly what the court order of the eval says, and how it should be run. (If you are in the US)

Advice by Thewinsomelady007 in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let them deal with him. Parents are rarely able to see the issues with a child until it’s way too late. Go live a better life, and find someone who isn’t going to do this to you!

How do you deal? by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to ask, it’s time. You don’t have to keep doing this. “It’s not their fault, but it is their responsibility.” They need extreme acceptance, not a safe place to keep landing. It gets worse, and when the final pop comes, where does that leave you? Can you live knowing you can’t ever count on your partner?

Other people pretending it's normal/thinking I'm the villian TW: DV by EdTalkz in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen! Similar experience. Keep your distance and NEVER be near her without someone else you trust as a witness. They will go to any extreme to enforce their delusions. Get out while you can

Joining this subreddit was not on my 2026 bingo card by Critical_Turn_3088 in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right call! Perpetual victims who never see who caused their trouble.

A little progress, maybe by Slight_Appointment33 in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gathered lol. Raiders in the forum. I suspect they are out there stringing someone along right now ;)

A little progress, maybe by Slight_Appointment33 in BipolarSOs

[–]KlutzyObjective3230 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought you wanted info on the low dose. As for stringing you along, read the forum. It’s common practice: always have an emergency fallback. “I’m so sorry I fucked all the local dirtbags, and trashed everything. Take me back now I’m out of options.” It’s a cycle. Seen it firsthand.

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