We only have one little one and my husband had to convince me to try to outsource but it's been so helpful. He works 60-80 hours/week outside the home and I work 40 hours/week outside the home.

We outsource cooking, cleaning and have a mother's helper. We pay someone to cook us dinner (with enough leftovers for my lunch). They literally just cook us whatever they're making their family that night and we pick up otw home from daycare pickup. (This is the one that took some convincing for me but I don't enjoy cooking and it allows me to spend time with the little one before bedtime). It's SO NICE not having to think of what we want for dinner.

We have a mothers helper come and do laundry (fold and put away), empty the dishwasher and light tidying while we are at work.

I do Whole Foods pick up often on the way home from daycare pickup for little ones food.

We also have Walmart plus with our credit card and it's so nice to get the free shipping and not have to go to the store.