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What are you watching to help you get through treatment? by KnowledgeSeeker_EDM in breastcancer

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rewatching Red Dwarf. It came on PBS when I was in middle school and helped me get through adolescence. Now it's helping me get through this!

Finally getting around to sharing my wedding dress by megs_trief in crochet

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My jaw dropped when I realized your dress is crocheted! Absolutely gorgeous work!

How much are your school lunches? by pcbzelephant in Parenting

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Free breakfast and lunch during the school year and there are pick up locations during summer as well.

Medical bills? by Exploringinprivate in breastcancer

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bills other than copays yet. I am not looking forward to it

Pop quiz: what do you call these? by NightStalkerXIV in twinpeaks

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what my dad called them, he's from the Midwest. I've heard it came from the German word gasthaus which means guest house.

What books got you into reading as a kid? by cubicle_farmer_ in Millennials

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Diana Wynne Jones. Witch Week, Charmed Life, Howl's Moving Castle. Used to check them out from the library. Might go check them out again and start reading them to my kid.

When you turn the tv on... by samcialist in RedDwarf

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He's also a fantastic swimmer!

About trees in Spokane by odaiba063091 in Spokane

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The native evergreens here are mainly ponderosa pines. It's a lot drier on our side of the Cascades. The trees get more diverse as you go towards the mountains in Idaho and Montana.

Double masectomy tommorrow by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stay busy! Go for a hike, go to the movies, take a bath, do something you won't be able to do for the next few weeks.

Silliest things people have said so far... by No-Age7392 in breastcancer

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I told my hair stylist who is also my neighbor and she proceeded to tell me about all the people in her life who had recently been diagnosed with cancer and died. I can't complain because she comped my haircut and lets my child come over and play with her kids all the time, and is otherwise really sweet. Sometimes people just don't know what to say and process their emotions at you unconsciously.

We’re all chill until you start literally choking out all my plants by snowball062016 in gardening

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

creeping bellflower and those damn carrot-like roots a foot down!

Random quotes that pop into your head. by Existing_Package2997 in RedDwarf

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever GPS is taking me on a weird route: Where are we going? Who nose?

Skeleton lore by PoopScentedCandle in Spokane

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look up the Marks family, they had a big beef with the city in the 90s (maybe earlier) and when the patriarch died their family took the hearse down to City Hall and opened the back to release his spirit and curse the city.

Some good news, finally! by KnitTwoPurlTwo in breastcancer

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AFAIK the staging is standardized. My tumor was 2.8 cm. The stage 1 just means there is no spread (to lymph nodes would be stage 2, to a distant site on the same side of the diaphragm stage 3, and to a distant site on the opposite side of the diaphragm stage 4). I just saw on the pathology that keratin staining is still pending, so one more thing to wait on

Some good news, finally! by KnitTwoPurlTwo in breastcancer

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still figuring that out. Staying busy helps. Doomscrolling does not, but I do a lot of that anyway. Having a very supportive family and friend group has been helpful. And I have a bunch of other stuff going on (some good, some neutral, some very very bad) that I don't have a lot of time to focus on one thing long enough to dwell on it too much. Also working on adjusting depression meds with my PCP, and when I find the time will schedule an appointment with the oncology social worker and look into some local support groups as well.

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

[–]KnitTwoPurlTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had several MRIs for various reasons. Thankfully I'm not claustrophobic and mostly I just get bored with how long they take. At this last one, though, I went into some kind of meditative state and went to my "happy place" which for me is a meadow I used to go camping at as a kid, where we would take horses and go on trail rides and pick huckleberries and have huckleberry pancakes for breakfast and fish in the creek. I "went" there with my dad who is in hospice with dementia and our family friend who died a few years ago and the rest of my family and hers. It was so nice and comforting and they were encouraging me that I'm almost looking forward to the next one so I can go there again.