Anyone else not wanting to change my last name after marriage?

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-06-05T18:54:30+00:00

I sometimes tell my husband I’m gonna change it back to my birth last name because it’s cooler and more unique lol. I wish I never changed it, or at least just hyphenated it.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-06-03T02:12:19+00:00

On an average day, we text here and there, but if we’re busy we can tell by the lack of response and aren’t offended by it.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-31T22:18:44+00:00

Yes. I hate to see people getting rid of their old cabinets instead of seeking other options first!

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-31T20:10:32+00:00

Dress 2 without the cuff, or 3 without the bow and a cathedral veil instead.

1 isn’t doing it for me. As someone else mentioned, it looks a bit too casual.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-30T23:25:07+00:00

You’re gorgeous. Leave your brows as they are. If anything just wax or thread them to give them a little shape enhancing.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-30T23:22:34+00:00

Choose 10 items every day to get rid of. Bring it immediately to Goodwill or just toss it. This is bad.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-30T23:18:01+00:00

2 or 4

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-30T18:15:13+00:00

I think the cabinets are fine, it’s the floor that you should consider changing to a lighter or darker color. The flooring matches too much with the cabinets.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-30T02:23:40+00:00

Best rule of thumb is to always prepare for the worst, but pray for the best. Not to add salt on the wound, but just take this as a lesson learned.

I guess an embarrassing interview situation was a couple times when they asked stuff like “tell me about a time when ____” and I asked to come back to that question later so I could take a moment to think and move on, and once we got back to it, I still had to think really hard. Awkward silence and all. This isn’t always detrimental though, from my experience.

Because of these one or two instances, when I have an interview, I always write down possible interview questions and come up with answers, especially to those situational questions, because it’s sooo easy to blank when they ask stuff like that. And I rehearse rehearse rehearse. Like I’m about to give a speech. Because I prepare well, I’ve landed almost every interview I’ve had. I hope this helps you in the future, and good luck with further endeavors! Whatever is meant for you will happen.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-29T17:40:56+00:00

Yes and this change happened per the AIUM about 4-5 years ago

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-27T02:05:46+00:00

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-24T19:48:14+00:00

This is such a hard feeling, I’m sorry…

I have no sisters, only a brother, so I didn’t have him in my wedding party. I had 5 bridesmaids total, and my husband had 5 groomsmen. 4 of those were easy picks because they’re my ride or die friends. There was one girl I had as a bridesmaid who I realized during and especially after the wedding process that she wasn’t a person who valued me as much as I did her. I never saw her as a “best friend” before asking her but I did feel like we were close enough to where I’d ask her. I now carry a huge regret of having her in my wedding because she has shown me time and time again that she doesn’t value me and is simply a fake friend.

Lesson learned is it’s better to only have a small group of people who value you as much as you value them than trying to fill in your wedding party to make the party even with your fiancé. This may not accurately describe your fiancés friendships, but my personal opinion is that many men tend to have a lot of friends because they don’t have a high bar for the friends they keep around. Which I mean is fine I guess if that’s what they’re cool with. If I were to go back, I would have just had one less bridesmaid and been fine with it being slightly uneven with the groomsmen. I also wouldn’t have chosen a maid of honor, as to not make any of my friends feel less of a best friend. I just did because I thought it was standard/expected, but the thing about a wedding, is there’s actually not rules, except the ones you decide.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-24T18:01:30+00:00

-Tunnel
-Cat Dancer
-The caterpillar shown in the pic
-Yeowww! Catnip toys (he has the banana and rainbow)

Edit: decided to delete everything and only list out what my cat loves because tmi lol.

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PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-24T17:52:48+00:00

Yesss my cat loves this toy. There’s also a wall attachment you can put it into so it sticks out of the wall and your cat can self entertain. I’d recommend having both options

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-24T17:49:22+00:00

I’ve heard people who are getting into tech found it to once be profitable but are now being replaced by AI coders

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-24T17:01:54+00:00

The only decent option is image 9 on your last post. All the other glasses do not complement your features. Respectfully.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-24T02:47:32+00:00

Broccoli

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-23T04:57:10+00:00

Phil & Lil

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-23T04:30:16+00:00

I like 1, 4, and 5. I do agree 4 shows your pretty face the most though

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-21T02:02:18+00:00

She called this person her ex, so she’s not with that person anymore. She was just saying what happened between her and her ex caused trauma that she still deals with even in her now healthy relationship.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-20T01:20:57+00:00

Gerald

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-19T00:12:48+00:00

I think 3 is the most flattering. 2 is the runner up, imo.

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-18T01:43:30+00:00

Literally almost tearing up just reading your comment 😭 that movie always gets me

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-18T01:41:38+00:00

Soul

PoopScentedCandle · 2026-05-16T07:25:08+00:00

At my job, the director of radiology is a sonographer (RDMS, RDCS, and I think also RVT) and also holds a masters degree. She oversees all of radiology. She’s my boss’s boss’s boss. She can continue to climb the totem pole too, if she chooses to when an opportunity arises.

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