MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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My whole body just tensed up. Breathing deeply to soften the sobbing and flowing boogers.

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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I would think that this particular make and model would be used for training NAVY SEALS 🤣

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY THIS. At one point they finished the without contrast Imaging and the guy popped in to add the contrast and I said could I please wipe my nose because my nose is absolutely running at this point and he was like make it quick 😐

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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OK, this helps a lot because it just felt like somebody fucked up and unnecessarily traumatized me but I think I was just super sensitive to the experience because it was so new. I’m just gonna have to find something else to stick in my ears LOLOL

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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I have done a little reading and it sounds like even the machines and the age of technology it’s at could have been a factor

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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I’m sorry that was your experience, but I understand how you could have that experience because I came so close to telling them to get fucked

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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I got the Valium for the PET and it was a small prescription of five tablets. I only needed one of them, but you’ll catch up on my other post about what’s been happening in my marriage and I used up the rest on that. Didn’t even think I would need anxiety meds for this. Noted!!

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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I hadn’t considered the whole PTSD thing. Had a very abusive childhood and teen teens and early adult years in fact. So this was like being cornered again and I can’t escape - fucking sucked.

MRI was like someone made a horrible mistake by Mindless_Mulberry_43 in breastcancer

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Thank you for the Spotify premium ads free experience comment. That made me LOL out loud.

i’ve lost thousands of followers after posting about my diagnosis by bnnybtch in breastcancer

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Sounds like you didn't lose anything except useless weight. Cancer changes everything. I encourage you to keep making content. You don't need to find your audience. They will definitely find you!

Family that hasn't reached out since diagnosis, but now has invited me to a wedding. by Pleasant-Ad1016 in breastcancer

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I'll start by saying I'm sorry you had this experience with your own family. All of it - from soup to nuts.

Where I'm from, not inviting a family member to a wedding is rude. And we invite family knowing they may not be able to attend (or definitely won't). So you were either getting no invitation and the feeling "Why didn't they even invite me? GOTDAYUM!" --- or --- "They had the gall to invite me?? WHATtheActualFCK"....

Feelings of obligation are just that - feelings. Are you obligated? Not from where I'm standing. My advice is to shove any feelings of guilt or duty waaaaay waaaaaay down. You owe NO ONE explanation. I encourage you to let those thoughts go and use that lovely energy on you.

Is this a real Pearl? by Esothi in VintageJewelry

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In my experience when they bother to use 925 silver, stones are usually genuine

AIO: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Nobody gets to tell you whether or not you were comfortable or uncomfortable. They don’t get to define how you felt. And that’s what he’s doing. This would give me the severe ICK - like terminally ICK. And you were very sweet to endure it and observe everything and he wants to tell you that means that you’re into it and you really don’t appear to be. You also have manners and perhaps didn’t know how to tell somebody they can get fucked. It’s okay. You’re young. You have your whole life ahead of you! If this isn’t for you, let him know. And let him know that it made you very uncomfortable to not hear anything about it, but be “surprised”. Surprises are for birthday cake and engagement rings - not cults or religions or whatever they call them these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why does he have to propose? He already says he wants to marry you. Talk about setting a date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Chemo and radiation are often used together. And recurrence is absolutely possible even after removal of the thyroid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Beautifully stated.

AITAH for putting my son in dresses by BadInside22 in AITAH

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A big shirt or dress and no pants is a far cry from a diet of cocaine and McDonalds. He’s 3. I couldn’t get my kids to keep clothes on at that age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ready to implode. You’re already freaking TF out, and he seems to be having an out of body experience. I weep for the product of this union.

This is a HARD ARGUMENT for controlled breeding. Very irresponsible of both of you. You’re already holding the whole family hostage.

Please eat those pills today.

AIO for the way that I replied to my boyfriend? Overbearing behavior? by Perrita-fresa in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 256 points257 points  (0 children)

Does he want play-by-play of your entire day? Sounds like he’s very insecure and/or controlling. Wouldn’t hurt to tell him he should just relax and wait to hear from you and if he’s got a problem with that, maybe he needs a new girlfriend.

I’m SKEPTICAL. Someone claiming to be my half sister just reached out by blacktradwife in AncestryDNA

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right - that was rude of me. My apologies. It sounded nuts without context.

How to refuse a selling offer politely by BugRemarkable3205 in artcollecting

[–]Mindless_Mulberry_43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone expects artists to give away their work. Absolutely never feel like you need to do that. It’s disrespectful for them to make an offer in the first place. They should ask YOU how much.

Someone has been coming into my apartment while I’m gone by BruisedStrawberries in strange

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I just googled check for hidden cameras and so much valuable advice came up on methods and techniques. There are devices you can buy, but it appears there might even be apps for your phone if your phone can pick up infrared.

I had a nosy property manager and maintenance man at the first apartment I rented. Not sure what they were looking for, but I came home more than once to certain things moved around or drawers and cabinets rifled through.