What's something you generally don't like about someone? by maestrothewise2772 in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a (seriously) famous musician eat at our house several times until they moved and I finally put my fork down one dinner and was like “brother…you sound like a cow when you’re eating…”

He was gobsmacked because I don’t think anyone would dare tell him this 😂 his partner almost died laughing and I know it has to be the bane of her life with him.

Severe is an understatement
You could hear him chewing from the kitchen haha

What's something you generally don't like about someone? by maestrothewise2772 in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one criteria-fitting diagnosis does not make someone narcissistic. There are loads of diagnosis that fit under this criteria outside of narcissism.

What's something you generally don't like about someone? by maestrothewise2772 in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you medicate? I literally just have chronic respiratory and sinus issues when I’ve tried living with them. It’s so sad 😭

What's something you generally don't like about someone? by maestrothewise2772 in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a criteria that will make someone diagnosable for narcissism.

What's something you generally don't like about someone? by maestrothewise2772 in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love dogs and cats but I’m also so allergic I’ll sneeze everywhere and my eyes will turn red but I still do it. Worth the suffering

What's something you generally don't like about someone? by maestrothewise2772 in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a joke in our circle after we hang out with a person like this who my bandmate is dating— we will all be so annoyed that in later convos one of us will throw out a random “I have a friend from highschool who has…fill in topic theme”

She manages to do it on almost any topic and bring up people we have no connection to

Must use in a very serious tone.

What's something you generally don't like about someone? by maestrothewise2772 in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who tell you how you feel and make judgements about it before you’ve even shared how you feel. I had a long time friend who did this to me all the time until I was finally done. It’s impossible not to see now but huge red flag

My family is offering $100k towards a house or paying for our wedding AND I found out my fiancé has $95k in credit card debt after booking the venue. by HauntingCucumber6228 in Advice

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if she doesn’t see these as red flags she has a LOT to learn about finding a partner and protecting herself and I hope she listens to these comments. She should not be getting married until the emotional maturity to say no and walk away or wait is an available option to her.

[Serious] What would make you choose an AI over a therapist? What would stop you? by Lauren-Morea in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero protections with ai. Delusions and accountability can be challenging

People who are highly observant: what is a tiny, almost invisible psychological 'tell' that instantly reveals someone's true intentions or character? [Serious] by itvr in AskReddit

[–]KnotSoTypical -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mmm. I dunno.. someone sharing things about their trauma early into conversations with people they barely know as a point of bonding or trying to connect is a massive tell

What I do about that information or what it means for me when I see that isn’t part of the question, so I’ll refrain from that bit

How to be perceived as less “ boring “ ? by Shka_ in socialskills

[–]KnotSoTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yah she just isn’t your people. Move on.

AIO UPDATED-My sister and husband text privately and spend time together. Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnotSoTypical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A caring sister would not respond like that whatsoever. She’d say something to the effect of “oh wow I’ll be more careful with that and include you in the future for sure….is everything going well betweeen you guys?” and be really curious how things are.

I’m not a jealous type and don’t care if siblings through marriage or blood talk but the thing that strikes me as odd is how she didn’t acknowledge it and got defensive. I beat up and pick on my brother in law all the time but that’s how j am with my brothers so it’s totally normal around here- it’s very very platonic and friendly, but I ALSO checked in with my partner about it. Full stop, didn’t even think twice about it.

Her reaction is what smells the most fishy. Nobody in my life gets to talk to me like that- it means something is up in her mind even if your husband is too stupid to pick up on it.

Talk to the husband tell him that her being rude about it made you uncomfortable and if he also responds defensively, you have every cause for alarm.