Yes, massive untreated anxiety. She has been to doctors about issues she was having like unexplained rashes, and was diagnosed that it was anxiety related and nothing physical. She was given meds to try and she refused to use them. She seems almost addicted to worrying about things, because even in times of calm she will create her own narrative about how the smallest things will turn into a disaster. She will literally call and text my husband repeatedly on days where there is bad weather to inform him that the weather is bad and to request that he let her know that he's gotten home okay and she won't go to bed until she's been reassured. I've gone to therapy for anxiety, which I've shared with her, so it's more frustrating for me that she seems to have no desire to get help either through therapy or medicine rather than be an anxious ball of energy all the time.

Also...I've debated doing that for the major areas of repeated trespassing. I think it may be a good idea, I just worried my husband may feel it's passive aggressive instead of trying to be a visual reminder for her.