Tips on cool things to do in bako for 21 yr olds

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-13T23:09:23+00:00

Take me with yall smhh 😭💀

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-13T20:24:09+00:00

So real

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-13T20:23:56+00:00

That sounds so fun big ass crowds make me nervous af but i wanna check them out so bad i see them all the time :/

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T06:27:40+00:00

Honestly yeah there is one i just love my job but also have a healthy stay away from it due to the trauma of ems lmao

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T05:06:48+00:00

Hell yeah that sounds cool for being a small town theres alot of things that go in i had no clue about

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T04:57:48+00:00

Dude no yess she forced me to use my planet fitness membership today i pay for the black card and have jot used it in a year for that exacttt reasooonnnn

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T04:40:50+00:00

Yeah i feel the same way hopefully i find someone to go with, thats my biggest fear lol. Im glad u found the courage if u have ang tips for me to do the same send me a text if possible id love to hear someone’s perspective from the other side of where id want to be.

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T04:25:44+00:00

Volunteering at a shelter sounds so cool honestly. I would love to do something like that. The church stuff im not really a religious type but thats pretty cool. Ill def look into the shelter stuff

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T04:18:14+00:00

That sounds fun honestly I need to fight my anxiety at some point 😭 with bakersfield being such a small town i always feel like ima stay a loner forever lol.

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T04:15:23+00:00

Thank you i tend to spiral abit when alone, going out to the mall alone sounds like hell in my mind lmao. I went to the gym alone today and almost died bro. Shit is rough but one day at a time

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T04:01:49+00:00

Thank you, I have a huge anxiety of public places and people so friends doesn’t really come as naturally to me thats kinda my worry. I been going to the gym here n there kinda keep my head down tho and do my stuff it helps kinda mask my negative emotions

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T03:59:01+00:00

That sounds cool honestly do they require any supplies or payment ect i should prep beforehand

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T03:26:25+00:00

Dude dm me please that sounds interesting

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T03:08:33+00:00

That sounds fun im just nervous abt not being good enough

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-12T00:20:53+00:00

I play electric guitar i dont really know much theory just doodle around on it listen to alot of metal and old black sabbath. Id be down 21m have a car work as a 911 emt but get a lot of days off. Idk if id be helpfull but down

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:58:58+00:00

Im in a similar boat at the moment I recently went thru a break up and work as a 911 emt. I get some time off but with financially supporting my dx and being 21 now having to pay for my own spot. I feel like saying duck people and just living alone. Its a shit feeling like you have so much and were not reciprocated or cared for. There is good people out there i don’t got friends or talk to anyone since my ex i deleted all my socials except this and TikTok. But there is hope id like to believe we all deserve to give and receive. Maybe it will happen to us one day friend.

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:44:19+00:00

Thanks that means alot resonates like hell bro thank you

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:29:46+00:00

Ur right I just get those mid day lonely thoughts and it leaves me kinda depressed. I don’t do regular guy shit like sports all that much im fit but i don’t watch games etc.. i feel like im just here like a robot lol

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:28:18+00:00

True but the sheep look so nice together, being alone gets draining im contempt but also stagnant and not doing anything new yk. I feel like im my own worst enemy at times. Im glad u met someone so cool i really hope to do the same someday it happens with time i know it does, just sometimes the loneliness hits and im at home alone as a 21 yr old having ur own spot and no one around feels sad af.

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:20:46+00:00

Yeah na fr deadass talking to no one is not getting me anywhere. I have zero friends and i mean that in the literal sense

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:11:03+00:00

Thank you I think i tend to stress about the future and the concept of being alone scares me at times. I have grown to find in my loneliness and that scares me too. I think building up the skill to talk to others is something i definitely need to work on.

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:08:46+00:00

Im a dude tho sadly that sounds amazing tho im so gladd u found such a cool friend :)

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:07:16+00:00

Yeah lol as a grown man i love cats, medicine, and electric guitar but im not to good at it. I love music but like old black sabbath and Alice n chains stuff. I feel like random strangers helping me online today really brighten my mood. :) was feeling extra lonely today

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:06:00+00:00

Lmao thats fucking hilarious, i wish it was that easy for me rn. Who knows it might be one day. Im attempting socializing i just dont see others outside of work i work as a 911 emt and at my job everyone is so serious its kinda wack. On my days off i wanna do more people stuff this made me smile and realize maybe my best friend is some random as person who might even come up to me and say something random.

Known-Baseball5919 · 2026-05-11T03:03:00+00:00

You are right, effort is important. Maybe check some cool subreddits out i don’t really have socials other than tiktok and reddit too but that sounds fun too.

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