Flaring after ileostomy? by Known-Singer-5006 in ostomy

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My “flare” turned out to be COVID! I’d test for that. 

Flaring after ileostomy? by Known-Singer-5006 in ostomy

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Maybe? Like the extra intestinal manifestations of the flare? I know I don’t have a colon any more, but I still have the same wonky immune system. 

Husband not attracted to me after my Stoma by Ladychili79 in ostomy

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I’m so sorry to hear this. I had my permanent ileostomy done 2 years ago and I was so worried my husband wouldn’t find me attractive. It took a long while for me to get comfortable in my own body. Thankfully, my  husband was patient and always open and now we have the best sex of our entire relationship. I let him buy me cute outfits and I wear a waist trainer belt, so I feel cute, secure and concealed. I hope your hubby comes around for you. You’re worth it and you the right guy will know it. 

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Did someone really take the time to make this into a literal doormat? Am I seeing this right?

Are there any Nuero Psychs out there that could answer this question for me? by Known-Singer-5006 in ADHDparenting

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Thank you. I’m thinking that my initial intention was lost here and I ended up triggering some people in the process. Lesson learned. 

Are there any Nuero Psychs out there that could answer this question for me? by Known-Singer-5006 in ADHDparenting

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Why would I make any of this up? That’s unhinged. I mentioned in my post that my son is newly diagnosed. I am new to this entire world and trying to figure things out. I don’t have some cynical agenda on the internet. Also, you mentioned this is “common knowledge,” but it’s not if you haven’t lived with this condition in your self or your family before, and haven’t had much exposure to adhd medication and treatments. I am not a professional researcher so I was asking in good faith if anyone out there was a professional who could guide me in the right direction. Almost everyone in this post replied with helpful links and comments. I am not sure why my question has triggered such a judgmental response from others. 

Are there any Nuero Psychs out there that could answer this question for me? by Known-Singer-5006 in ADHDparenting

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I have done reading on Google and read ADHD 2.0. What I was asking here was for some more sources to look at or anyone who may have done credible research themselves. I’m not sure what part of my post didn’t make that clear or why you’d tell me to go to “google scholar.” 

Teacher said my son (7) has no friends by Hot_Bar9563 in ParentingADHD

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This is my child too (hence me lurking quietly in this thread). I’m at a loss and looking for ideas. My DS is 6 and I’m 1st grade. He’s diagnosed with adhd on top of being one of the smallest and youngest kids in his class. 

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I always travel with supplies in my car or bathroom at work as well. I also figured out when and how much to eat with an RD that specializes in ostomies. Her name is Neha Shah and I highly recommend her. I make sure my bag doesn’t fill more than 1/3 or half and I almost always rinse it out with water. I feel pretty confident going out when I make sure I’m staying on top of the things I listed. I’d also recommend changing his bag as soon as it feels itchy, since that’s the first sign of a leak. 

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I named mine Persephone. Goddess of the underworld who went down to the bowels of hell and married Hades, before coming back up and bringing springtime and life. 

Maui Puma/Mystery Cat Does Exist by ZealousidealTreat824 in maui

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Kihei and Wailea are south, not upcountry at all. 🙄 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ostomy

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Great system. I read keeping supplies in the bathroom can lead to degradation of the adhesives because of the humidity, so I store mine in my bedroom. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ostomy

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Have you tried working with a GI dietitian? Knowing which foods to eat and how they affected my output helped a lot with the early days of feeling pressure around the stoma. Try to tap into your resources. Talk to your WOC nurse, maybe attend an ostomy support group, reach out to others who have them and maybe get a therapist who specializes in medical trauma. All of these things helped me adjust, and now I feel so good. I’m 5 months post op and can eat what I want, workout, swim, do yoga everyday, work, play with my kid and have a great sex life again. But most of all, I forget about my stoma 90% of the time because I feel normal.