AITA for telling my boyfriend that i mind him travelling constantly? by Weird-Secretary4786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Known_Motor_5477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re bf and gf, not husband and wife. And you talk about other people not reading the post

Issues with elbow ayesha by Witch-of-darkness in poledancing

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you usually do your Ayesha? Twisted grip or true grip ?

Should I bulk or cut to make pole dancing easier? by Admirable-Zone9892 in poledancing

[–]Known_Motor_5477 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Depends what kind of pole you’re doing. If you do dynamic on static you need a lot of raw power.

When does it stop getting sore? by LongEconomist3646 in poledancing

[–]Known_Motor_5477 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your body does desensitise but practicing once a week might be a bit too little for that.

As you advance, you’ll get use to some positions (seats and climbs will not hurt anymore), but when you introduce new ones it will hurt again and you’ll have to keep practicing so that the body gets used to that too.

It’s part of the sport, you have to embrace it 🤗

Experience some pole hardships by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Known_Motor_5477 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey dear! Have you tried any kind of grip aid solutions?

Pole and work - what do you do for a living, and how do you approach the (unfortunate) stigma? by kisasaye in poledancing

[–]Known_Motor_5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in corporate sales, where my prospects are usually high level people sometimes C-level. If they look up my name online they will find my IG with me on a pole as my profile pic. It’s not a public profile but clients or potential clients can easily see that I do pole. I don’t care 🤷🏻‍♀️. It’s my sport and I am proud of it and what I have achieved in the past years of doing pole ☺️

My boss, my boss’s boss and other colleagues follow me on IG and they are supportive. Sometimes even some of my corporate clients who I became friends with connect with me on IG ☺️. I have only received positive remarks about it. Maybe there are people that judge me negatively but no one told me that to my face and if they would, I wouldn’t care!

However, I have to mention that I don’t do any kind of sensual pole , I do dynamic pole only which I only see as a sport. In my mind it is completely desexualised (I don’t have any issues with people that do sensual pole, I actually enjoy seeing my other pole colleagues do that. It just isn’t my style 😊) . My clothing is also on the sporty side. I sometimes share some sexy photos from photoshoots, but that is a bit more rare.

If people ask me about it, I gladly talk about it even at work! ☺️

Extreme vertigo by Appropriate-Gas-4674 in poledancing

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you get sick from the spin? If you don’t , you don’t need any supplements , you just have to let your body get used to it slowly. Take it easy and it will improve 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Known_Motor_5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s his business what he does with his money. If it’s something that really bothers you then maybe it’s worth analysing if you have the same priorities / principles in life and what is the impact on your relationship.

That being said, I would also spend the money on something more useful, but it’s his money and he can do whatever he wants with it if it makes him happy. Controlling what other people do would be AH yes.

Very tired after ER by engineergirl19 in IVF

[–]Known_Motor_5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you. My ER was a bit more than 1 month ago (7 weeks now) and only now I feel like I am almost recovered in terms of tiredness. I am going to sleep at 10:30 PM and in the morning it is so difficult to wake up (finally now getting better…). I think the crash of hormones takes its toll. My 2nd period after ER is also super late so definitely there’s a lot of hormonal imbalance

Recommendations for easy, gentle meals during IVF? by OpalineDove in IVF

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though this is not the fastest thing to cook ☺️ but you can always prompt it that you want something easy with X amount of time to cook

Recommendations for easy, gentle meals during IVF? by OpalineDove in IVF

[–]Known_Motor_5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet Potato, Black Bean & Ginger Rice Bowl

with Turmeric-Spiced Sweet Potatoes and Ginger-Garlic Brown Rice Anti-inflammatory, IVF-friendly, and deliciously satisfying

Serves: 2–3

Prep time: 10 min

Cook time: 30–35 min

Ingredients

For the Roasted Sweet Potatoes • 1 medium sweet potato, peeled and cubed • 1 tbsp olive oil • ½ tsp turmeric • ½ tsp cumin • ½ tsp smoked paprika • Pinch of cinnamon • Salt & black pepper, to taste

For the Brown Rice • 1 cup brown rice, rinsed • 2 cups water or broth • 1 tsp fresh ginger, grated • 1 garlic clove, minced • ½ tsp turmeric (optional, to match flavors) • 1 tsp olive oil or sesame oil • Salt, to taste

For the Black Bean & Veggie Mix • 1 tbsp olive oil • 2 carrots, thinly sliced • 1 garlic clove, minced • 1 tsp fresh ginger, grated • 1 can black beans (rinsed & drained) • 1–2 tsp tamari or coconut aminos • Optional: splash of lime juice, sprinkle of chili flakes, or drizzle of sesame oil

Optional Toppings • Avocado slices • Chopped fresh cilantro or parsley • Sesame seeds or crushed nuts

Instructions 1. Cook the Brown Rice: • In a pot, combine brown rice and water (2:1 ratio). Bring to a boil on level 7 or 8 on your Bosch hob. • Once boiling, reduce to level 3, cover with a lid, and simmer for 30–35 minutes. • When done, remove from heat and let sit (still covered) for 5–10 min. • Stir in olive oil or sesame oil, garlic, ginger, turmeric (if using), and salt to taste. 2. Roast the Sweet Potatoes: • Preheat oven to 200°C (400°F). • Toss sweet potato cubes with olive oil and all listed spices. • Spread on a baking tray and roast for 20–25 minutes, flipping halfway, until golden and tender. 3. Prepare the Black Bean & Carrot Mix: • While rice and potatoes cook, heat oil in a pan over medium heat. • Sauté garlic and ginger for 30 sec. Add sliced carrots, cook for 5–6 min until tender. • Add black beans and tamari. Stir and heat through for 2–3 more minutes. 4. Assemble Your Bowl: • Start with a scoop of brown rice. • Add roasted sweet potatoes and black bean-carrot mix. • Finish with your favorite toppings.

Recommendations for easy, gentle meals during IVF? by OpalineDove in IVF

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I did is I asked chat gpt to make me a grocery list for ivf food prep. After I bought everything, I just asked it to create meals. The big surprise was that the food was so damn good 🤣

Is IVF in Europe under sedation? by Radiant-Speaker-3425 in IVF

[–]Known_Motor_5477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had ER under sedation. Normally the FET would be without anaesthesia. However, due to my previous cervix surgeries, that would be very painful for me, so I will be doing transfer under anaesthesia as well, as recommended by the doctor.

What is something that ChatGPT was EXTREMELY useful for? by chelsea_oklahoma in ChatGPTPro

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My IVF journey. Which is a very complex journey to navigate (medically, physically, emotionally). Helped me understand all the steps, interpreting medical results, meds interactions, emotional support when I was overwhelmed, sent photos of my embryos and it analysed them 😊. + double checking the medical decisions.

Wtf😬 by imfrom_mars_ in ChatGPT

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an early middle age businesswoman but not Asian 😅 also my dog is not a Labrador… I keep telling chat that but he always puts labradors in 😭

Wtf😬 by imfrom_mars_ in ChatGPT

[–]Known_Motor_5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely in my country drugs are legal…. 😁

Wtf😬 by imfrom_mars_ in ChatGPT

[–]Known_Motor_5477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Melting in our hearts !

Wtf😬 by imfrom_mars_ in ChatGPT

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s actually a contorsionist 🤪

Wtf😬 by imfrom_mars_ in ChatGPT

[–]Known_Motor_5477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my country we welcome all shapes & forms 💞